Rayven
Addicted to Minimins!
I was just wondering how many of us have avoided social events or certain people because you're worried about how you look/don't feel confident enough?
I've lost count of the amount of times i've been invited out & have made up some flimsy excuse as to why i can't make it when really i just don't feel attractive enough to go.
It sounds silly, but i dread meeting my hubbys workmates - i know he's not ashamed of me, but I'M ashamed of me & i wouldn't want his mates sniggering behind their hands about him having a 'big' girlfriend.
Also since going on facebook i've gotten in contact with loads of old school friends & been invited to parties etc but i don't feel comfortable enough in my own skin to go.
Do we all beat ourselves up like this? Does the confidence some with losing the weight or do you have to have the confidence first?
I've lost count of the amount of times i've been invited out & have made up some flimsy excuse as to why i can't make it when really i just don't feel attractive enough to go.
It sounds silly, but i dread meeting my hubbys workmates - i know he's not ashamed of me, but I'M ashamed of me & i wouldn't want his mates sniggering behind their hands about him having a 'big' girlfriend.
Also since going on facebook i've gotten in contact with loads of old school friends & been invited to parties etc but i don't feel comfortable enough in my own skin to go.
Do we all beat ourselves up like this? Does the confidence some with losing the weight or do you have to have the confidence first?