melarnz
Silver Member
I went out with my best friend on saturday night and I have lost weight and she has put it on.
Due to my weight loss it has inspired her to loose weight. I have always been about 3 stone heavier than her, but now there is only about 7lbs in it.
She told me that she could never be my fat friend because it would change the dynamics of our friendship. She said whenever we went out, she knew that she wouldnt be the biggest cos i was going and that I was her buffer. She said in my photos I look gaunt now, and look like all the fat has just dropped downwards (i have actually lost it all over). These are just a few comments she made!!
I know I should have been upset, but I felt really smug and just smiled! My losing weight has made her feel insecure and she cant bear it. We have been best friends for 10 years, who would have thought it was because I was fat lol.
Has anyone else had this sort of reaction?
Due to my weight loss it has inspired her to loose weight. I have always been about 3 stone heavier than her, but now there is only about 7lbs in it.
She told me that she could never be my fat friend because it would change the dynamics of our friendship. She said whenever we went out, she knew that she wouldnt be the biggest cos i was going and that I was her buffer. She said in my photos I look gaunt now, and look like all the fat has just dropped downwards (i have actually lost it all over). These are just a few comments she made!!
I know I should have been upset, but I felt really smug and just smiled! My losing weight has made her feel insecure and she cant bear it. We have been best friends for 10 years, who would have thought it was because I was fat lol.
Has anyone else had this sort of reaction?