can anyone help me I am desperate

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  1. rainbird

    rainbird Full Member

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    Hi, I just cant seem to get back on cd again and I know its because i have a school reunion in 10 days time and am dreading it. So, its making me eat when I should be losing weight (which would make me feel better!!!) ie complete madness has set in!!! So daily I am feeling worse and more out of control and its probably too late to make much difference. Wish I had the confidence to just say s*d what others think, I just think I'll be judged for being fat and hence a failure which is odd as I don't judge others. I am bearing my soul a bit here and am desperate to get back in control. I am eating out of a fear of being not good enough as I am I suppose.
    Sorry to be negative x
     
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    Strange the things our minds do to our bodies isn't it? Realistically, I don't think there would be too much difference to see in 10 days if you did SS 100%, although obviously you would feel more in control so I think just cut out the carbs, reduce bloating and the get back on track later. You are setting yourself a goal of sticking to CD and any little slip is seen as a massive failure with a lot at stake right now with your reunion coming up so your mind is telling you that you've 'failed' and you may as well go on a bender. Get yourself booked in to have your hair done and get a good outfit and you'll look great. I don't know how long ago you were at school but there will probably be people there who have gone bald/ beer belly/ grey haired in the mean time so no-one will look like their school photos.
    Have a good time
     
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    I had a reunion this last weekend and was exactly the same beforehand! Funny thing was by the time I left I was actually quite confident and not wanting to sound *****y but I came out thinking that actually I'm looking pretty good lol

    The balding, aging worse, beer belly and going grey thing is absolutely spot on lol
     
  5. rainbird

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    Thankyou both so much for your replies - you are both completely right and have made me feel much better. It really is too late to make much difference and I must just go and enjoy it - life is just too short. I love my "fat" friends as much as my other "skinny" friends. Just suppose I feel a bit ashamed of myself - and now I feel ashamed again because there are some other people who would give their right arm to weigh 13 stone. Sorry all and thanks for your kind replies SX
     
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