Hey everyone, I've been lurking and adding my comments here for a few months but I feel I really need help now. I am in a relationship that needs to end and I'm so stupid that I can't make it stop! It is not physically abusive but psychologically in that he just makes me feel like I'm a total moron. Even with his brother and wife, who were here this weekend, he called me about 10 times an hour and said I was an embarassment to the whole town (?) and that I made his brother all upset (which the brother does not confirm, he says he has no idea what is going on). Well the flat is mine, I want to make him leave, but he refuses and I just don't know what to do. He uses arguments such as - I have no place to go- how can you toss out 12 years - you will be sorry - and I feel this complete responsibility for him, and that I'll be tossing him out with no place to go. I know it's stupid for me to feel this way when he has treated me so poorly. Please give me the strength to get rid of him somehow! I've got support from my sister and friends but I can't seem to do it!