Hi Carol,
I'm sorry to read about the losses in your family.
Are you regularly screened? Along with any female siblings? Sounds like you should be... so perhaps a chat with your GP is in order.
I don't want to alarm you, because it's better to be safe. But my GP referred me for annual screening after just one female relative with it (my mum).
My sister lives in a different area and she also has screening.
I hate going to my appointments i must admit but I wouldn't miss one ever.
Whilst BC is scary and does claim lives, it is quite a 'good' one too get when it comes to catching it early and being able to remove it all.
((Hugs))