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Ohh its a funny one then that!! Well hopefully if its getting better it'll soon dissapear for u fingers crossed :) xxx
 
what a bad day, havent had my 2nd shake yet, zoe, (daughter) rang me from work crying, so i went to meet her for her break, she is having a right tough time with her idiot of a bloke, i never say anything about him, i have just been waiting for her to say mum i'm coming home, phew at last he is a possessive controlling moron, she isnt even allowed to call me, so a week sat when hes at work we will be collecting her, have to do it that way or he wont let her go or take any bits with her, we are going away for the weekend so it turns out its good timing, he can knock at my door all he likes there will be noone here. have grabbed a truffle bar and will have my shake at 5 now, god i am so happy, at last she can be a normal teen going out and having a good time with her friends who she had to drop, now just to wait...
 
Oh no how awful for her at least she's got the courage to leave now. Fair play to her as its not easy.

Hate people like that

Big hugs
 
I was in pretty much the exact same relationship a few years ago but with an alcoholic. So I completely understand.

Good for her. It'll be the best decision she's ever made. Glad she has you to take care of her x
 
its just so long away, i just worry so much, the stuff she was telling me was bad enough and she said theres more but she wont tell me.

i havent managed my shake as its nearly dinner time so no point really, am going to add a little bit of chicken to make up for it though.

what is it in some men that makes them think its ok to treat women like this??? i just dont get it,
 
From my experience the men are insecure

Hope the time whizzes by and you have your daughter back with u soon :)
 
oh he definitley is, he is punching way above his weight,
all he had to do was be loving and kind though, thats what they dont realise isnt it, not bullying and controlling taking every piece of independance away,
 
Yes they aren't nice people at all and will end up lonely
 
Hey hun! Sorry to hear about ur daughter, shes very lucky to have such a caring mum and dad by the sounds of it :) Bet a massive weights been lifted off ur shoulders now shes coming home, hope everything works out for her :) xxx
 
Hey Kay

Just caught up on your diary - coming for my daily check in with you lovelies! Sorry to hear about your daughter but very pleased to see she's on her way home soon! As Stef said she is lucky to have such supportive family! Some men just don't know what they have do they! Glad shes getting out of it though!

Xxxxx
 
Bless you, I hope everything works out well for your daughter. How awful, I was in a bad relationship a few years back and my mother was so good through it all, lost count of the times I went to her crying, but I never listened. I finally left him on valentines day of all days, I'd just found out he'd been doing the dirty with one of his work colleagues. Only thing was we'd just moved to another town 40 miles from my home and friends, so I just grabbed some things and left. It will be hard for her, but at least she has your support xx
 
TaraTeal said:
Bless you, I hope everything works out well for your daughter. How awful, I was in a bad relationship a few years back and my mother was so good through it all, lost count of the times I went to her crying, but I never listened. I finally left him on valentines day of all days, I'd just found out he'd been doing the dirty with one of his work colleagues. Only thing was we'd just moved to another town 40 miles from my home and friends, so I just grabbed some things and left. It will be hard for her, but at least she has your support xx
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*******. When I left, I only took my clothes and my cat! lol! You know the only thing I miss from that relationship? My american fridge freezer! pmsl!!! Sounds stupid, but we'd bought our house and everything in it, I'd (stupidly) paid for, and my fridge freezer was my pride and joy! :wave_cry:
 
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*******. When I left, I only took my clothes and my cat! lol! You know the only thing I miss from that relationship? My american fridge freezer! pmsl!!! Sounds stupid, but we'd bought our house and everything in it, I'd (stupidly) paid for, and my fridge freezer was my pride and joy! :wave_cry:
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Yeah the only thing I miss was my dining table and chairs and my camera which he kept. After I left I found out lot's of things. He put me through alot of rubbish, looking back I just don't understand why I took it, I don't consider myself to be a pushover or weak, but with him I guess I just lived in denial!

Cable... Hope your daughter is doing well, and it will be the best decision of her life! x
 
thankyou all , yes i think there are that many knobs out there, near enough every woman has a tale to tell, if my son EVER treated a woman like that i would go mental!

have actually slept well i was dreaming of when both my eldest girls were small, was lovely, my first good night sleep in a bout a week, i had a job convincing kev to not just go to the flat and just getting her last night, but we have to do it her way or she is going to lose all of her stuff.

am going for a walk around the lakes this morning, my first shake i dont know what to do, i will have to take a bar with with and just fit one in when i can i suppose as will be with some friends for the day, hmmm its going to be a toughie.

thankyou all for being so kind x
 
just want to add...
i usually do a shop on a sunday i didnt do one this week and the cupboards are still full, we still have crisps, yougharts, lunch bars, popcorn, desserts in the fridge, all of the treats i say i am buying for the kids, shows who was really eating it doesnt it, and i believed it when i was saying it too!
and i dont just mean i didnt shop this sunday gone, also the one before apart from buying the extra milk.
 
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Hey hun, glad u had a good sleep! bet u feel so much better for it.
And as for the shopping, it just shows we dont actually realise what we eat! Im sorta the same, spent nowhere near the amount i usually do in the last 2 weeks and still loadsss in the cupboards!!

Hope u have a lovely day :) xx
 
I used to do that buy stuff with kids in mind but I end up eating it lol ha ha ha
 
just a quickie on here am absolutley knackard,
what a day, walked around the 3 lakes til 2.30 pm had only had my caramel shake this morning and a lemon bar, whilst my friends tucked into a jacket beans and cheese, i had peppermint tea whilst they had tea, went to solicitors to sign my contract to say i agree with redundancy, what a right moody arse he was you would of thought i was a criminal the way he was, got hope at 7.30 quickley bunged a giant mushroom in the oven with cottage pie on, have scoffed that and now to soak and do my teeth whitening, tmi lol, feel good and virtous today.
so today i have had day 10
hot hazelnut shake
lemon bar
cottage pie on giant mushroom
need to down some water, not had enough.
 
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