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Dating Advice Needed!!!!

S: 12st4lb C: 10st7lb G: 9st0lb BMI: 29.7 Loss: 1st11lb(14.53%)
I'm hoping you lovely people can help me out with a 'first date' problem as I didn't get a wink of sleep last night!:(

To cut a long story short, I've been 'talking' to a bloke on udate for a couple of months and we've arranged to meet for the first time on 3rd March. He's not the most attentive of blokes, his membership's lapsed but he still logs into udate, not to talk to me though:rolleyes: (obviously still looking - I'm okay with that!) He texted me yesterday afternoon and again this morning ("Hi, u ok?") and I haven't answered back for the simple reason that I can't work out whether he's playing games or not. My friend joked that "he must be married seeing as he works away in London a lot".:D

So, do I go on this date on Saturday? I'm not one for playing games (even though I am-sort of!), but I'm willing to give the date a try just to get a bit of experience, but where should I suggest we go? I'm meeting him at 1pm but have to be at work by 6pm as I couldn't get time off work, so we'll have a couple of hours to kill so to speak!
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Hi there
how about meeting at a local shopping centre for coffee or something to start with - at least that way there will loads people about and you can also make a sharp exit if you need to - go off and treat yourself if you dont want to stay the duration !!! I met my oh on udate 2 years ago, though I didnt meet him for a year - although I did meet another guy after a week - we got on famously but nothing came of it - just distant friends now. I would go for the experience, keep an open mind and just have fun !
Good Luck - let us know what happens x
S: 12st4lb C: 10st7lb G: 9st0lb BMI: 29.7 Loss: 1st11lb(14.53%)
Hi Bev,

We're meeting up in Liverpool Town Centre, as you say it's somewhere public if I feel the need to run away!;)

I definitely need the experience of dating as I've been single for 18 months and with my ex for 19 years before that, so I'm very much a 'dating virgin'!:D


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You will be fine though I know what you mean - when I split with my husband after being tog 15years I was totally niave to what the dating world was like !!! Just be yourself - enjoy and remember that there are LOADS of potential mates out there !!:D

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