Tracy Mo welcome. What you can do is have a little bit of what is on offer to you not to offend your host and if you are questioned about it just tell the truth - hopefully they understand. Good luck
Thanks to all who replied. You are right of course...I just need to be strong and believe in my own goal. Unfortunately it's not really a case of not being able to tell them I'm 'slimming', it's more a case of some family members seeing it as being 'silly' and being offended that I'm not eating the cream cakes etc. Oh well, I'll go, put up with the jibes and then when I'm slim and gorgeous they will see why I may have stuck to my guns about it. Cheers guys...resolution! x