She sounds like a few people I know, who have kids early, don't get any decent education and end up having no job or a really crappy job, and they blame everyone but themselves for the mess that is their lives. I assume gaol = jail? I've heard kids are a blessing and all that but people should sort their own lives out before bringing more in to the world. Some people out there that have kids can barely take care of themselves, let alone a baby who needs constant attention.
Also, DYJHIW a random stranger is telling you their life story and used the word obviously. Example: "Obviously my ex and I have split up and she's not compus mentus, know what I mean? So obviously when she gets unsupervised visitation I want him to have a phone with him just incase, know what I mean?"
I just really want to say "NO! INFACT THAT WASN'T OBVIOUS AT ALL, BUT I AM SO INTERESTED NOW SO PLEASE TELL ME MORE MR. STRANGER MAN!!"
Does my head in.
Also MLM I'm upset to hear your cat has had to be put down, I'd be really upset if that happened to any of my cats