Don't you just hate it when....

M Louise H said:
DYJHIW the news was bad and you're now Googling 'Laryngectomy' and voice replacement methods.

Cancer is a b!tch - that's all.

So sorry hun, hope the treatments, harsh though they may be, are successful xxx
 
DYJHIW you have a row with your OH and he tells you he doesn't love you, doesn't think he ever will and that he is only with me cos neither of us want to be old and lonely singletons :(

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How upsetting, I hope it was said in anger & it's all calmed down now x
 
Welshtigger said:
DYJHIW you have a row with your OH and he tells you he doesn't love you, doesn't think he ever will and that he is only with me cos neither of us want to be old and lonely singletons :(

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I agree with the above, as heartbreaking as it is, if he meant it let him go. You can both find true happiness. So sorry hun what an awful situation to be in. Xxxx
 
Welshtigger said:
DYJHIW you have a row with your OH and he tells you he doesn't love you, doesn't think he ever will and that he is only with me cos neither of us want to be old and lonely singletons :(

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W*nker!!!

I'm sorry Jo but comments said like that, whether or not in anger, are unacceptable. Full stop.

What an absolute prick. Who the hell is he to trample on anybody's feelings that way.

I suggest a hefty kick to the balls followed by a kick to the kerb.

Men like this make me sooooo angry. They're not men. They're boys with immature emotional issues that take them out on others.

Knob.
 
Welshtigger said:
DYJHIW you have a row with your OH and he tells you he doesn't love you, doesn't think he ever will and that he is only with me cos neither of us want to be old and lonely singletons :(

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:-O i'm speechless xxx were you having an argument at the time? Did he really mean it or was he just angry? Sending you big hug xxx
 
mrstore said:
Oh my god!! Sending big hugs your way xx

M Louise H said:
Wow! Was that said in temper or do you think there's some truth in it?

If he means it then you should let him go. Life's too short to stay somewhere you're not loved and you never know what's waiting around the next corner!

Big hugs x

Happy Holidays said:
How upsetting, I hope it was said in anger & it's all calmed down now x

ScarlettStar86 said:
I agree with the above, as heartbreaking as it is, if he meant it let him go. You can both find true happiness. So sorry hun what an awful situation to be in. Xxxx

Mrs.S. said:
W*nker!!!

I'm sorry Jo but comments said like that, whether or not in anger, are unacceptable. Full stop.

What an absolute prick. Who the hell is he to trample on anybody's feelings that way.

I suggest a hefty kick to the balls followed by a kick to the kerb.

Men like this make me sooooo angry. They're not men. They're boys with immature emotional issues that take them out on others.

Knob.

*Emsie* said:
It sounds as though he needs a wake up call!x

parfittaroles said:
:-O i'm speechless xxx were you having an argument at the time? Did he really mean it or was he just angry? Sending you big hug xxx

Thanks all-I just don't know what to do. We've been together about 9 months and we do argue sometimes but I thought everything else was ok-we were even going to book a holiday tomorrow when we get paid, and we've been talking about booking Florida for next year! Yes we were having an argument at the time, cos I'd fallen asleep while we were watching a film, that id asked him to put on! I got upset cos he was shouting about it and it jst escalated and he said it was over-no talking about it, nothing! I ended up staying there cos it was too late to go home and he said it wasn't the end and we could talk about it this morning! I've admitted it was probably all my fault but still he went off to work this morning and said he might speak to me later but thinks he Wants a break! I'm a mess-I haven't slept a wink all night and just feeling like, along with every other aspect of my life-I've failed! I just want a normal life with friends and stuff :(

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M Louise H said:
DYJHIW the news was bad and you're now Googling 'Laryngectomy' and voice replacement methods.

Cancer is a b!tch - that's all.

Sorry to hear your news-it kinda puts my pathetic post into perspective x hugs x

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Oh bless you. Me and the oh had a similar argument once because he always falls asleep on me! I was in a bad mood one day and ended up snapping and making a huge deal out of it when really I was just upset because I'd had a bad day & wanted to talk about it (rather than listen to his very loud snoring).

Maybe ask him what he wants & whether you both could change anything or do something differently. If not then you'll be better off without him. It's better to be on your own looking for someone else than being stuck in an unhappy relationship.

Why on earth do you think you've failed?

Big hug xxxx
 
parfittaroles said:
:-O i'm speechless xxx were you having an argument at the time? Did he really mean it or was he just angry? Sending you big hug xxx

How very manipulative! If you were advising your best mate in this situation what would you do?

I reckon the holiday is freaking him out maybe?
 
Shirleen said:
How very manipulative! If you were advising your best mate in this situation what would you do?

I reckon the holiday is freaking him out maybe?

?! How am I being manipulative? I'm confused (or I've misunderstood lol) x
 
parfittaroles said:
?! How am I being manipulative? I'm confused (or I've misunderstood lol) x

Oh rats! I quoted the wrong post!!!
Meant to reply to WT's post so very sorry sweetie xxxx
 
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