This is all really interesting - thanks everyone for replying. I agree with the fact that loosing it is the "easy" part (when I see easy i mean bloody difficult but do-able! haha) its the maintaining for me thats always a problem. Last year I started TFR in August at 14stone7Ib and finished 6 weeks later on 12stone11Ib ... then I went on a holiday came back and all I'v done ever since is EAT .. and all the bad stuff - like literally I was waking up at 2am in hte morning and going to the kitchen to find chocolate ... bad bad bad eating habits, and the worst of it was most of the time I probably wasny hungry - I just constantly think about food.
Im finding that now on day 3 of Dukan (and 4Ib down I might add

) Im not at all hungry, and although the thought of food is still constantly there, not because Im hungry but because food is my addiction, Im not depriving myself and actually like last night when I couldnt stop thinking about food - I can sit and eat food like chicken or crab sticks and then thats the desire dealt with.
Things like WW and Slimming world are all good and well but then i find myself falling into bad habits like "oh 1 chocolate from the box wont hurt because iv got like 40 points left this week!" .. and then the whole box is gone, whereas on Dukan I know I cant have 1 at all - the barriers and restrictions will in the long term, as much as I hate them now, help me hugely change my thoughts towards food (I hope!)
My partner was about to embark on TFR again this morning after finding out she's now the heaviest she has ever been, but I convinced her to try Dukan first because its far more achievable AND it helps to keep the weight off ...
Im dreading that consolidation stage though ... knowing Im at goal weight and still have to "diet" is going to be tough - but hopefully by then, my mindset would hvae changed completely.
I'v got a baby on the way in 4 months (adoption - Im not pregnant before anyone yells at me! haha) and I want to be fit and ready for him when he comes and already in a healthy eating mindset so that he benefits from that too .. he is my motivation.
