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  1. Fatty_no_more

    Fatty_no_more Slimming for my children

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    I was in a queue today waiting to pay when a couple behind me went Woah look at that ass really loudly and started giggling. I knew they were talking about me and nearly started to cry! I turned round to show them they had hurt me and they stifled their giggles and I heard the bloke say when I turned back I think she heard.
    Then to top it off they started singing baby got back! :(

    Feeling really low and can't tell my husband as he will go mental. X
     
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  3. lurverick

    lurverick Now to maintain.....

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    aww hun have some big hugs!
    its times like that you wish you could keep a straight face,not get upset and reply with that may be but at least im doing something about it.....shame nothing can be done about your ugly face and attitude!
     
  4. ColJack

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    aww sweetie, don't let the *******s get you down..
    It takes a really insecure person to take pleasure in making someone else feel bad about themselves.
     
  5. fillymum

    fillymum synful soul

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    Hey FNM, do not spend one second worrying about them. They are such saddos !!!!! They are not worth a thought. They are sad, narrow, unintelligent people. You on the other-hand are smart, clever and in control of your life. For a start you are doing something about your baby weight ( what ignorant,sorry s*ds they are). You are the better person. Do not be upset by them,just pity them for the sad people they are.

    Huge hugs xxxxxxxxxxx
     
  6. Jennyonaplate

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    People who feel the need to comment on other people's appearances are likely to be insecure and feel the need to make themselves feel better, by making other people feel or look bad.

    People like this would probably find anything to criticise about others, be it big bum, strange hair, naff shoes etc. I'm sure if you followed them they would criticise most people they came across, so try not to take it too personally. I work in a college and have heard all sorts of skinny/normal people called fat, not just those who actually are - they just do it because they think they're funny.

    I know this is all easier said than done though, I've been shouted at in the street before by a car full of people calling me fat & directing me to the gym. It hurts and it hurts a lot, and I never told anyone as, let's face it - it's embarassing. But, there's nothing you can do to change what they've said, but try and harness how they've made you feel and turn it into motivation!
     
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    Heartless toerags. It's just too remote to hope that they'll consider what they've done & think twice about opening their gobs in future. I just don't know why some people think they've got a right to vocalize unsolicitated opinions like that - and think it's funny. Try to put it behind you - they're not worth worrying about. :553:
     
  8. big bear

    big bear A bear on a mission!

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    Chin up girl, they are rude ignorant gits...at least you are doing something about it. They can't change their ugly mugs or personality X
     
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    Beegee The Big One

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    Goodness you poor thing - I really feel for you. I'm constantly appalled at how rude people are to each other - I'm sure they were perfect physical specimens (NOT). I'd be gutted too but I guess you just have to pick yourself up and get on with the plan secure in the knowledge that pretty soon you'll be attracting wolf whistles and compliments when people check out your brand new skinny ass! Chin up hun x
     
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    That is awful they obviously have issues of there own thats why there nasty about other ppl xx
     
  11. custardlipstick

    custardlipstick Addicted to Cheese

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    I cant add anything better than what has already been said, ignore the horrible *******, they are not worth it. I know how your feeling though, as the rumor went round my work ages ago I was pregnant when I wasnt so for days I had people and customers even congratulating me and commenting on how big I was when I wasnt! Some people really dont think about how they hurt others, and they arent worth it. hope you ignore this and go on to be fab and skinny and yourll have people whistling at you instead :) xxx
     
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    hugs xx
     
  13. ColJack

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    I don't intend to be mean when I say this, but you need to be more confident in yourself...
    the only way people like that can hurt you is if you let them..

    saying that, I was once shouted at by someone from a minibus whilst working up a ladder on a building site..
    the next day I happened to be working at the factory the mini-bus was taking the workers to and spotted the gobby git who had shouted at me..
    I'm ashamed to say that I cornered him and pinned him against a wall and put the fear of god into him ( I'm 6 foot 4, very large and he was a stick thin 5 foot 2 ish... and I was in a very bad mood that day..).
    He did appologise though so I put him down and let him scurry off...
     
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    I'm a very confident person, but that doesn't stop someone's words hurting, especially when they highlight our own issues that we're trying to deal with.
     
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    Way to go Jack lol! I would have loved to have seen his face!
     
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    hon i cant say much more about this than others have but I have been there and it really hurts and sending you lots of hugs. You are a gorgous (SP) person and you are doing all the right thing so if you can put a smile on and think
    you can diet but they are always gonna be ugly and stupid!!!! (its what i think and strangely it makes me smile)
     
  17. mod-karen79

    mod-karen79 rainbows holiday buddy :)

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    i'd have said i'll take that as a compliment and then pointed out that Baby's Got Back is a song about someones love of women with big bums.

    i'm proud of having a big bum, my boyfriend has an (unhealthy) obsession with big bums and when we people watch we will always compliment a magnificent arse! if i lose my bum when i lose weight i will be gutted as it's something i'm proud to wield!

    get out there and shake it! :) for every man who doesn't like them or tells his mates he does like them but secretely does there's a hell of alot more that do love them.
     
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    Aww try not to let it get you down hun. You're taking control and doing something about your weight. You will be slim and fit and healthy, whereas they will always be pond scum. And unfortunately for them, there is no cure to being a complete b*****d
     
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    it's not something I'm proud of.. being a bully of any sorts isn't right.. something just snapped that day I think.
    if he was the same height as me or older than me I wouldn't have done it so what gave me the right to do that to someone smaller and younger?
    having always been a big lad ( I was always taller than my classmates ) I have always been taught / told not to fight or roughouse with the smaller kids in case I hurt them, so I'm what you would term a "gentle giant" most of the time..
    It takes a lot to get me angry and the results are usually bad for the person that did..
    I broke a kids arm at school once when he kept jumping on my back. I leaned forwards and threw him over the top..
     
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    I'm guessing they were sharing a brain cell between them and in was in transit when they spoke! Some people are idiots, tomorrow is another day, I know its hard but dont give them a second thought...have a minimins hug***
     
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    What absolute w**kers, how can people be like this seriously?! :mad:

    I am a great believer in karma, what goes around comes around, they'll get what they deserve.

    (((Hugs)))
     
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