JoFlo2
Full Member
Right, I am 40 in May... :cry:
My husband has booked the local community hall for a party at the end of that month (birthday at the beginning BUT party needs to be on a rest weekend as we both work shifts as do many of our friends) I wanted a Glam Casino night & disco but thought that a "community hall" wouldn't be fitting???
Husband suggested fancy dress, which i also like the idea of but that can put people off..
I am going through the "should I have a party??" dilema
Then we thought I could have an intimate meal for very close friends the weekend of my actual birthday (about 10 of us) and then a lunch with family that same weekend...
Am I trying to have my cake and eat it?
:help2:
Worried and stressed!!! Anyone been in same position?
What have you done for "big" birthdays??
BTW I have 2 small children to consider somewhere alone the line as well aged 5 & 2....
My husband has booked the local community hall for a party at the end of that month (birthday at the beginning BUT party needs to be on a rest weekend as we both work shifts as do many of our friends) I wanted a Glam Casino night & disco but thought that a "community hall" wouldn't be fitting???
Husband suggested fancy dress, which i also like the idea of but that can put people off..
I am going through the "should I have a party??" dilema
Then we thought I could have an intimate meal for very close friends the weekend of my actual birthday (about 10 of us) and then a lunch with family that same weekend...
Am I trying to have my cake and eat it?
:help2:
Worried and stressed!!! Anyone been in same position?
What have you done for "big" birthdays??
BTW I have 2 small children to consider somewhere alone the line as well aged 5 & 2....