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Getting through tough times


is happy being Yorkiegirl
Today has been another day where in the past I would have turned to food. Sadly my friend's 3 month old baby died last night. I feel desolate that he has had his chance of life taken away but LL has made me strong enough to go on without consoling myself with food.
I also think that now I am able to accept death more readily. Part of that is down to the CBT and becoming more accepting of things in my life, and part of it is down to my experiences through the last year. Tomorrow it will be 11 months since Nigel died.
But in that time, with help from LL, I have become someone I want to be, rather than someone who is unsecure and feels badly about how they look all the time.
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I am so sorry to hear the devastating news about your friend's baby. My heart goes out to the family.

I cannot imagine what you had gone through in the past year with the tragic death of your husband. I hope that you will stay strong and positive in the coming weeks.
S: 17st4lb C: 16st11lb G: 11st0lb BMI: 43 Loss: 0st7lb(2.89%)
Thinking of you at this difficult time.
So sorry to hear about your friend baby such a sad time huge to you and your friend


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Absolutely tragic, very sorry to hear this sad news. I cannot begin to imagine the pain.

My thoughts are for you and your friend.

Stay strong.



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Oh Anna,
I'm so sorry to read your news, such an awful thing to happen...

Well done on staying strong, sure Nigel will be looking down on you, proud as punch at how strong you are...

My thoughts are with you
Thoughts for your friend and you x


is happy being Yorkiegirl
it's a funny old world, I have definitely realised that now. No point in trying to understand why things happen. Accept them and get on with your life. Your direction might change a little, but I know my goals are still there waiting for me.


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So sorry to hear the news about your friend's baby. My thoughts are with her and her family at this sad time.
And also with you and your family tomorrow. Nigel will be very proud of you.
Irene xx


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G: 12st0lb
What an awful time for you and your friend, hope you can both help each other through the next few days/weeks/ months.

Thinking of you all.xx


Serial Foodie!
S: 19st7lb C: 18st2lb G: 9st7lb BMI: 49.6 Loss: 1st5lb(6.96%)
god bless ur friends, her family and their baby. i hope they find the strength to get thru this awful, unfair loss.

i can only imagine nigel is somewhere feeling incredibly proud of u for the person u have managed to become thru CBT. xxx

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