Hi all,
I just want to have a moan really and someone to see if I'm right for being mad or I'm just over exagerating things.
I was supposed to go to class tonight, me and a firend had it arranged for the last week, on monday she came down to my flat to see me for the day she is my neighbour (we live in the same house but its flats) and she didtched me half way through the day to go for lunch with a work colleague. That's ok although I did feel a bit ditched as she was supposed to spend the whole day with me but I told her I was just slobbing around and doing my housework, she even arranged to go out for lunch infront of me and knew i couldnt afford to go
then I havent heard from her for 2 days, which is really weird as she is down at mine all the spare time she has.
She hasn't contacted me allday and then when she didnt arrive when we were supposed to leave i got worried. I then sent my OH to ask her whethewr we were going or not and she said that she was going to her mums to have a bath instead and tonight was the only time she can go.
but its a big lie, her mum owns a guest house and there is 25 shower she can use at any time she likes!
I'm really hurt that she wasnt going to even bother to tell me she didnt want to go and has lied and avoided me.
Am I just being silly?
I do loads for her and have been let down alot before by people maybe thats why im so bothered about it.
i honestly thought she was different.
I just want to have a moan really and someone to see if I'm right for being mad or I'm just over exagerating things.
I was supposed to go to class tonight, me and a firend had it arranged for the last week, on monday she came down to my flat to see me for the day she is my neighbour (we live in the same house but its flats) and she didtched me half way through the day to go for lunch with a work colleague. That's ok although I did feel a bit ditched as she was supposed to spend the whole day with me but I told her I was just slobbing around and doing my housework, she even arranged to go out for lunch infront of me and knew i couldnt afford to go
then I havent heard from her for 2 days, which is really weird as she is down at mine all the spare time she has.
She hasn't contacted me allday and then when she didnt arrive when we were supposed to leave i got worried. I then sent my OH to ask her whethewr we were going or not and she said that she was going to her mums to have a bath instead and tonight was the only time she can go.
but its a big lie, her mum owns a guest house and there is 25 shower she can use at any time she likes!
I'm really hurt that she wasnt going to even bother to tell me she didnt want to go and has lied and avoided me.
Am I just being silly?
I do loads for her and have been let down alot before by people maybe thats why im so bothered about it.
i honestly thought she was different.