Hi, I'm new to the forums, I'm Jay from Liverpool and I just can't really carry on the way I am any more without sounding melodramatic. I'm 18 years old and I weigh 13 and a half stone. I just need all the advice I can get on just how to lose weight. I can't do it by myself I just don't have the motivation and it's pretty much destroying my social life to the point where I'm beginning to consider that my girlfriend deserves somebody better looking. If there's any advice you can possibly give me I'd be really really grateful.