I just confronted the Fence Thief!

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  1. Blonde Logic

    Blonde Logic Yes. You can.

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    SOmething I never would have done before LL, is confront someone, but I just went outside and had a go at the neighbour who stole the fence.

    Now I know why I don;t liie confrontations - they leave me all shaky - and nervous!!! Doesn;t help I am about to go to the dentist too!! :D

    I went out, stood and just stared at him for abuot 30 seconds, he looked up and could see I was angry.

    I basically sarcastically thanked him for being such a nice neighbour, told him it was really thoughtful to take it out without so much as a word, etc., etc. I stayed calm, but the wind was making my eyes tear up so I probablyt looked all emotional!! LOL

    Anyway, he started out cocky, and by the end of it was sort of hanging his head - I think he felt like a real mug. And so he should. My parting words were to tell him in no minced words, that I thought he was an A*rse, and for him to tell our friend thanks for his help in it too, then I walked off. Felt good.

    Wow - I never would have done this a year ago!!!
     
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    Well done!! xx
     
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    Good on ya BL!! If nothing else, you've made him think about his ridiculous actions, and hopefully he'll feel a total knob now :D
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    Well done you :), love your outfit in your sig pic btw :D
     
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    SexyBecks1 is loving CWP xx

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    Well done you. I bet it took real guts to do that. Good on ya x
     
  7. Blonde Logic

    Blonde Logic Yes. You can.

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    Thanks gals. It did feel good, but after I felt crap - couldn;t believe how shaky I was!!! LOL Just a rough-tough-creampuff me. :D

    At least I had my say. :)
     
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    Good for you BL! Fantastic that your confidence is still growing and growing:)

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    x
     
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    thin_inside I Can Do This!

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    Shows what can happen when we lose the weight barrier and face the world as who we are meant to be. Well done BL.
     
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    Well done you. He was so pathetic and cowardly the way he did it. Glad you stood u to him. Sounds like your best rid of him.
    Did you manage to get something sorted to replace it?
     
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    well done!
    you look lovely in your new pic btw
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    Thanks everyone. Thanks foryour support and your kind comments too.

    I really like my outfit too! :D Never imagined I would have ever worn a cropped waistcoat and a low slung belt. Not in my life!!! :D But I wanted a little red belt to match my red heels you can't see- had to settle for black, but on the hunt for a red one. I was a little nervous wearing it - but you all made me feel its OK. :)

    Thank you!!!!

    XXX
     
  13. Blonde Logic

    Blonde Logic Yes. You can.

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    I prefer bolshey to arsy. :p
     
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    I must of missed something but well done you, it feels so good to tell people whats on your mind sometimes.
     
  15. Blonde Logic

    Blonde Logic Yes. You can.

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    Actually, we use neither. :D We'd say b*tchy. :D
     
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    Blonde Logic Yes. You can.

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    aw, I was just havin fun with ya! :)

    Assertive is the correct word actually, but I thought arsy was a bit negative - not that you used it that way - just in general...that is how I usually hear it anyway.

    I definatly am getting better at standing my ground. I wouldn;t say thought that I would enjoy being angry. lol Now I am making sure not to get on your bad side!! :D

    XX
     
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    Well done BL, i would say you da man but i guess in this case you da woman.

    i would have take the fence and dome something very unpleasant if it was me. then said "there you go its now a permanent part of you" as he hobbled off holding his rear end.
     
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