SandraB
Gold Member
Fizz, I'm going to make a couple of incredibly personal remarks here so please don't take offence, they're all meant to be very complimentary......
I'm afraid that I judged you on your first couple of posts and I was wrong and most unfair. Originally I thought, single mum, baby far too young, uneducated.......you get the picture....but this post, written in perfect English! Shows a girl with a very mature outlook on life who wants to get her act together and make the most of herself and life!
I'm so thrilled to read that you intend putting yourself first and so you should! Ok so you've had a child when you were only a kid yourself but that's no reason to accept a life of drudgery.......if you make a go of things then life will automatically get better for your son. If you feel good about yourself then so will he, you obviously don't want him to grow up with no respect for you so you have to have some respect for yourself!
Fizzy, a few of us on here are quite a lot older than you and we've already lived rather a lot......if we can be of any help whatsoever or offer advice then don't hesitate to ask ok? But put yourself first cos no-one else will.
Good luck, with the diet and with life x
I'm afraid that I judged you on your first couple of posts and I was wrong and most unfair. Originally I thought, single mum, baby far too young, uneducated.......you get the picture....but this post, written in perfect English! Shows a girl with a very mature outlook on life who wants to get her act together and make the most of herself and life!
I'm so thrilled to read that you intend putting yourself first and so you should! Ok so you've had a child when you were only a kid yourself but that's no reason to accept a life of drudgery.......if you make a go of things then life will automatically get better for your son. If you feel good about yourself then so will he, you obviously don't want him to grow up with no respect for you so you have to have some respect for yourself!
Fizzy, a few of us on here are quite a lot older than you and we've already lived rather a lot......if we can be of any help whatsoever or offer advice then don't hesitate to ask ok? But put yourself first cos no-one else will.
Good luck, with the diet and with life x