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I thought ..this is it !!!!

#1
Quite annoyed really ...
We went to sister-in-laws at the weekend , bearing in mind we havent been for 5 weeks.
There we all was chatting away and SIL said
''I've got to ask...''
(I thought OMG she has noticed)
She went on ...'' have you lost weight?''....
I was like Oh yes, oh yes I have !!(in my head)
and she finished it off by saying ...
''Paul?''
AARRRGGGHHH!!!!
thats sooo unfair !!
wot about me???:cry:
obviously im still fat !
then a bit later Paul said -''We've had dinner out and I had a cream egg, but Alice is not allowed one !!''
What an idiot ...SW is a secret, so she asked me why I wasnt allowed one ....I said
'' oh it's not that i not allowed one ,i just didnt want one ''....I could slap him at times

He had better start behaving or he wont be going to you know where;);)
 
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#2
Ah, how frustrating!!

I find that it takes a good few stone before people notice with me. I think they can tell something is different but they're not sure what and are too polite to say anything until they're sure!

I wish people wouldn't be so polite though - it makes any dieters day if people notice!
 

Annie68

Silver Member
#3
It's not fair is it? We went to visit family at Christmas who we'd not seen since July last year. I'd lost almost 2 and a half stone by that point and not one of my family noticed.. including my mum and eldest daughter! :(

You've done really well.. and next time you see them, they'll notice :D
 

Edwin

Silver Member
#4
oh i know the feeling but with girl at work. she says she's lost 5 lbs. i've lost 2st and they all noticed her. grrrrrr stick with it and you'll get noticed!
 

clairex

Silver Member
#5
i think because i have so much to lose, its not going to be until i lose a good 3stone before people noticing - which is very depressing but aslong as I can see a difference that will keep me going for now!
 
#7
How come people are soooooo quick to comment when we put weight on but never comment when it's lost??? It took ages before people noticed I was losing but in the past, the minute I put some on it was noticed!!!
 

BevR

Full Member
#8
i haven't told any family about me starting slimming neither, because i think they all expect me to fail again, all i get is.
'well you can't see a difference yet may be next month or so'
or
' well your sister is very slim you will never get to be like her, don't worry that your obese thats who you are'

ARGHH!!!! families dont you just love them
 
#9
Lol...families are confusing!
I saw mine on 23rd December at a funeral and had loads of comments about my weight loss from a pervy Uncle!...nice!
 


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