Identity Crisis following loss

[AndydBurts]

Hi everyone,

Bit of a strange topic but think I am suffering from a Identity crisis ..I was always the big rugby player joker drinker of my social groups and as such knew my place and where I fitted in ,

These last few months after the initial elation of reaching target found myself a bit lost not really sure who I am

Sounds crazy I know but maybe someone has had similar experience

Had some real high points was a man of year national finalist in 2011 etc so some good things but just a strange feeling im left with

Thanks for listening

 

[*Emsie*]

Yes I think it can take time to adjust. I think its easier when the 'fuss' has died down and people stop making so many comments about the loss and how you look so different/great must feel this must feel that etc and you can actually start to work out how you do feel exactly.
Good Luck!

 

[gazter]

As an idea, why don't you bulk up, in terms of muscle? You can still be the big man, but swap the lard for muscle mass.