ljackson said:Calling someone bad , sad or useless is terrible you should be ashamed of yourself. this poor lady is struggling with her confidence and you call her names, give constructive advice without the cruel names in the future, or don't bother to post in the first place.
IWillBeAYummyMummy said:I think you owe that responder and apology!! And need to read posts correctly before you reply in future.
Day 1 accomplished successfully yesterday Feeling very positive today despite being starving hungry lol
slim2012 said:Thanks all, have had a shake and a soup so far and water and coffee and am feeling ok
ljackson said:Calling someone bad , sad or useless is terrible you should be ashamed of yourself. this poor lady is struggling with her confidence and you call her names, give constructive advice without the cruel names in the future, or don't bother to post in the first place.
Calling someone bad , sad or useless is terrible you should be ashamed of yourself. this poor lady is struggling with her confidence and you call her names, give constructive advice without the cruel names in the future, or don't bother to post in the first place.
Thanks Sinead - welcome words x I am going to do that right now - watch some diet programmes. I feel slightly better, had a good dance class and have agreed to ate on more doing Hen Partys - my first one is at the end of July so I want to look slim and fit for that. Also I have decided on a new hair style I would like for going away at the beginning of July. July being next month I really need to stop fanning about and get on with it. I have not been In the right mind set at all today but feel I am getting there.
Another good one is OBESE-ONE YEAR TO SAVE MY LIFE. The UK one is especially good because the personal trainer in it is GORGEOUS lol. This show is inspirational and just shows what can be achieved. It is also realistic in showing how tough it can be at times but that, if you just persevere and never give up, you'll get there.
I was just like you way back in January. I weighed nearly 16 stone and started a diet nearly every day - only to give up by tea time and eat so much that I felt sick & uncomfortable. The voice in my head kept telling me how useless I was and I would never be able to lose weight.
I also tried to do it myself with Exante packs and again failed to last a whole day.
I decided I would bite the bullet and joined LL - I took it as a complete fresh start and lost 12lbs in my first week. I have now changed over to CD and I visit my Councillor weekly which I look forward too.
Apart from 1 week when I stayed the same(when I changed from LL to CD so weighed on different scales) I have lost weight EVERY week (including the odd occasional meal out, family celebrations and a holiday).
I am now heading towards 4 stone lighter and feel just great.
Please Please give it one more try, dont be so hard on yourself and stop thinking about all the failed attempts and concentrate on the future success which you will have.