Katycakes Won't Give Up...

[Chelsea Lou]

Course, Katy's children were sent out barefoot to harvest the haggis plants, milk the whisky cows and round up the bagpipe birds.........poor little blighters!

Haggis plants.........pmsl!!!!

I know things are different with fears about their safety and I do think it is important they have their share of the chores to do. How else would we get the time to read a magazine, file our nails, do a face-pack, chat on the phone????????

 

[DisneyParis]

Course, Katy's children were sent out barefoot to harvest the haggis plants, milk the whisky cows and round up the bagpipe birds.........poor little blighters!

No, no! They'd be chasing after the haggis and boy can they go, l've never managed to catch up with one yet. You're right about the cows and birds though.

 

[Greeneyes11]

Mine all have chores, my 10 year old knows how to stack and turn on the dishwasher and I dont..... have a great day with your family Katy xx

 

[Bess]

Haggis plants.........pmsl!!!!

I know things are different with fears about their safety and I do think it is important they have their share of the chores to do. How else would we get the time to read a magazine, file our nails, do a face-pack, chat on the phone????????

Damn right Chels!!

No, no! They'd be chasing after the haggis and boy can they go, l've never managed to catch up with one yet. You're right about the cows and birds though.

LOL Dis!! :8855:

Mine all have chores, my 10 year old knows how to stack and turn on the dishwasher and I dont.....

A mother after my own heart!!

Hi Katy! We've been playing on your thread, waiting for you to come out too. xx

 

[LellyCD]

Hey Katy, How's your Sunday going hun? Hope you enjoyed your evening with friends.
xx

 

[DisneyParis]

Hope you've had a lovely day.

 

[Chelsea Lou]

Hiya KC. Hope you are ok. Don't like it when you go all quiet on us. We've been talking amongst ourselves whilst you've been away, as you can see lol.

Hope to hear from you soon. xxx

 

[SacredSilence]

Hey hun, Hope you`re ok? x

I`m finally back online and you seem to have disappeared? Xx

 

[herewego]

Hope you had a good weekend, Katy!

 

[Katycakes]

Thanks all... @ Chels & SS, I am still here, just about!

Wanted to say I was reading at the weekend and loved the fun and games on this thread, the haggis picture made me snort with laughter! Yes, my children have had chores from an early age too, as you guessed, out in their kilts roaming the hills for those extra-elusive Veggie Haggises... lol.

Thanks for still being there, even when I wasn't! You lot are the best.

xxx

 

[Katycakes]

DAY 55

Scales: 12st 4lb.

Tells its own story I guess, and yes, Chels & SS, have been off the rails. Again. I am so sick of this that I did think hard over weekend about whether I could come back here, I worry about letting people down and also bringing people down/making them wobble with my repeated falls. For that reason will not post details here, but binge territory once more and I am feeling so sad, so lost right now. I really haven't a clue what to do.

I do not want to give up or give in, and that's why I am posting, without a doubt I am the most stubborn and resistant to learning/change, person ever. I exasperate myself. Whatever I am doing is not working, so I need a new plan, and until I can find one am taking refuge in an SS day.

I am also going to start over with Beck, and with another book ordered at the same time which I never got around to looking at.

Thanks for being there lovely minis peeps, and so sorry for the suicide leap. Death by Chocolate? Doesn't sound quite so amusing from where I am standing.

xxx

 

[DisneyParis]

:hug99:

without a doubt I am the most stubborn and resistant to learning/change, person ever.

I feel the same and l bet lots of others to do. You think l'd have learnt by now , this is my 4th restart!, each time l hadn't put all the weight back on, but enough for it to make me feel unhappy and less confident.

Today's a new day/new week. We can do this. Thanks for joining in the March challenge.

 

[SacredSilence]

:hug99: Like a bad penny me Always turning up, There is noooo escape lol Xxx

 

[Bess]

DAY 55

Scales: 12st 4lb.

Tells its own story I guess, and yes, Chels & SS, have been off the rails. Again. I am so sick of this that I did think hard over weekend about whether I could come back here, I worry about letting people down and also bringing people down/making them wobble with my repeated falls. For that reason will not post details here, but binge territory once more and I am feeling so sad, so lost right now. I really haven't a clue what to do.

I do not want to give up or give in, and that's why I am posting, without a doubt I am the most stubborn and resistant to learning/change, person ever. I exasperate myself. Whatever I am doing is not working, so I need a new plan, and until I can find one am taking refuge in an SS day.

I am also going to start over with Beck, and with another book ordered at the same time which I never got around to looking at.

Thanks for being there lovely minis peeps, and so sorry for the suicide leap. Death by Chocolate? Doesn't sound quite so amusing from where I am standing.

xxx

Katy my dear, so sorry that you feel rotten. It would have been very hard to stick to CD this weekend for you though, with party time at home. How about joining me on SW? You've done it before, know it works and perhaps may be able to stick to it better? All in a rush, be back later. Love, xxxx

 

[Greeneyes11]

Katy, you must always keep coming back however bad you think you fall..... we all have these times and can totally understand.... maybe it was because the pressure was off you for delivering your work to the deadline and the relief made you eat because you felt you deserved it..... thats how I feel sometimes.... stick to SS today and then back on 810 tomorrow and that extra weight will come off quickly.... you have lost loads since you started so you haven't really failed in anything...... are just losing the weight more slowly than you had hoped, but you keep coming back and persevering so that can only be good for you. I feel exactly the same way as I have fallen so many times this year already, but I dust myself off and get back on...... I really feel for you today Katy, but I know you can do it and when things are going good you are an inspiration and when they go bad, we can relate to that too, so please please do not go away......

 

[Katycakes]

I know... I can't vanish, because the alternative would be too grim for words... just feeing very low. I'll get to the dust-myself-down bit in a while I hope... thanks, all of you, for being there. @ Bess, I am thinking about other paths... but so scared now because I don't know if I can trust myself with food at all. My head feels like it has just been through the shredder!

Just trying to hang on, the rest will come I hope.

xxx

 

[MinnieMel]

Show me a man who has never failed, and I'll see a man who has never attempted anything.
-- Robert Baden-Powell

The only way you will fail Katy is if you give up!

Work through Beck -- I am sure it'll help you.

MM

 

[DisneyParis]

Katy, l've said this to you before - you're too hard on yourself, you say such kind and supportive things to others. Try to talk to yourself (maybe not out loud, lol) as if you were encouraging a friend.
You've done really well, incl the 4lbs your BMI must just be approx 26, and those lbs will be gone in a day or two.

 

[Katycakes]

Think Pink... thanks Jess! I am hanging on in here. Two shakes down.

xxx

 

[MinnieMel]

Hi Katycakes,

It'll take some effort but I know that you can pull yourself back up onto the ledge.

And, unlike that dog... we'll give you a good tug to help you get there!

MM