Hi all,
Sorry - haven't read through everyone's posts yet as I'm in a bit of a state but will have a read through later.
My DH sent me an email (yes an email!!) earlier to say that he wanted to "talk". He never wants to talk and any heart to hearts are always instigated by me and just tolerated by him so it freaked me out. He won't pick up the phone (he's at work) and when I emailed him back to ask what he wanted to talk about he said "our sham of a marriage".
I am panicking at the moment as it's come completely out of the blue. Yesterday he suggested that we sell both our cars and just have one car - and now he wants to separate (OK I know I'm making assumptions here, but from the few emails he sent it certainly seems that way).
I'm so angry as well because I'm going out with the girls tonight and he wants to talk before I go! When I said it wasn't a good time and it could wait until another day he got even more upset.
I have no idea how to handle this! We have 2 young children and loads of debt - I can't even see how we could afford to have 2 separate households in this economical climate! Renting in our area is really expensive and I don't want to relocate because of school.
I know I'm running away with thoughts of divorce etc, but I feel I need to prepare for the worst. I could so do with some dutch courage now, but will have to do with a cup of tea
At least I'll be a slim divorcee rather than a fat one...silver linings and all that :sigh:
Sorry about the depressing post but I can't phone anyone as I don't want to cry in front of the children and I know just hearing a friend's voice right now would set me off.