My first Baby YAY!

[MissSlinky2011]

Ah that's awful, I'm so blessed that I have only had to deal with the loss of my granddad who I wish could have met my children, but some people just don't know what they have which is sad. Bet your so excited about your 12 week scan x

I never met my grandads on my mums side he died 3 years before I was born and I never met my nanna on my dads side she died when my dad was 8 (when my dad died he said his mam and my mams mam had come to collect him when we were in the hospital and he was looking in the corner it was eerie but comforting)

My grandads on my dads side died when I was 8 and I don't remember much about him except he used to bounce me on his knee then pretend is fallen through to the floor lol.

I'm really sad that my baby will only have nannas (my husbands dad left when he was 10 never to be seen again) my dad would have been an amazing grandad, I can't believe he will have been gone a year on the 12th then his birthday on the 13th.

X x x

 

[oasis6918]

Ah you've lost a lot of people, sorry to hear that. I'm fortunate to still have my mum and dad and my husband has his mum and dad and stepmum. I'm sure your baby will be loved more that it could ever wish for. You'll be okay hun, but I can only imagine how you feel wanting to be able to share this experience with the people that are missing. At our wedding we had a picture frame on the cake table giving special thanks to everyone who helped us out and at the bottom we paid tribute to my mum's parents, my husband's grandparents and my granddad. I wanted to involve them but I didn't realise the impact, so many of the family burst into tears lol but I know now it's something they'll remember about the wedding x

 

[Cas3]

My cousin is struggling to have a baby and I felt guilty announcing I was pregnant, I havnt had it easy though had four miscarriages before o got pregnant this time with my oldest it was easy he was an accident do we didn't even try but wasn't so lucky the next time, i feel bad because she deserves it and been trying for so long It must be hard to see for her I know it upset me when other people were pregnant when I was losing babies,

My son is called Jesse we love his name and it suits him perfectly, everyone hated it when i was pregnant but we named him after lead singer in our favourite band, it started as a jokey name but stuck and he couldn't be anything else now. I still never known anyone to use that name or know anyone called it which I like, I'm rebecca and there is always about 5 rebeccas in every class and didn't want that for him I like names that everyone knows so not too out there but what nobody seems to use, x

There's nothing wrong wiv Jesse I use to work in childcare and have met couple boys called jesse. My cousin has been trying for baby over 9yrs she lost 2 babies at 5mths I felt so awful telling her im expecting again. When she lost her last baby, the baby died 3 days before I had my little girl I just felt so guilty at the time I was 10 days over due so hoping our baby didn't arrive on the same day so know how bad you feel for your cousin.

Im sorry to hear about all your losses I been lucky not lost anyone close to me so far. Oasis that was a lovely gesture at your wedding x
Miss slinky I hope this will much better year for you x

 

[xxxjessiexxx]

I love the name Jesse sooooo much for a boy I wAnt it my self but we both will b called Jessie lol and we t having bobby for a boy now

 

[Cas3]

My oh wants to call our baby jessica! when have you got your scan must be soon I love bobby for a boy x

 

[xxxjessiexxx]

Scan is friday I will let u All know I just need it confirmed really I'm 1000000% it's a boy !!!! X

 

[Cas3]

I knew I was having girls wiv all my babies just found out at the scans to confirm! im sure everything will be fine on friday. How you getting on with ur diet?xx

 

[MissSlinky2011]

Ugh my sickness is getting worse I've thrown everything up since 7pm yesterday and I feel awful! And what's worse is I'm getting cold and shivery and I have work tomorrow x x x

 

[Cas3]

You might have a bug or the flu hun, try and drink plenty even if you do throw it back up it still be good for you and get plenty of rest x

 

[MissSlinky2011]

I had flu last week and I've gone all cold and I've got the shivers I'm in bed now, think I'm going to have to call in sick tomorrow.

X x x

 

[xxxjessiexxx]

Cas getting on pants I put 17 in on not happy one bit I have siatica and going gym too but not keeping weight down x

 

[MissSlinky2011]

Ooo sick sick sick, just tried shreddies (as they are easy to throw up) and they came straight back up. Anyone know if hyperemisis runs in the family? Dr in the morn I think

X x x

 

[mrs-s]

I had hyperemesis come out the other side now and I don't have to take tablets everyday just now and again but they gave me cyclizine for it, they didn't take me seriously though til I'd lost over a stone in 2 weeks, was dehydrated and had keytones in urine, My doc wouldn't give me tablets I had to get my consultant to ring him and explain what hyperemesis was before he would prescribe them for me!! Hope your feeling better soon,
I found that cream crackers w dairylea was one thing that stayed down, and flat coke too x

 

[MissSlinky2011]

I've been signed off work for two weeks with hyperemisis (thanks mam) if I can't eat something and keep it down by Friday I have to go on a drip x x x

 

[breeza]

I've been signed off work for two weeks with hyperemisis (thanks mam) if I can't eat something and keep it down by Friday I have to go on a drip x x x

Aw poor you how awful :-( hope you manage to keep something down before Friday x

 

[mrs-s]

Have they gave you tablets? I avoided the drip with them x

 

[MissSlinky2011]

Yeah they've given me tablets so hopefully I will be ok now x x x

 

[mrs-s]

Good glad you got some it's really awful hyperemesis nobody understands til they've been through it! X

 

[MissSlinky2011]

I'm glad I've got my mum she remembers it well lol, there's nothing like eating and immediately throwing up to put you off certain foods though!

X x x

 

[oasis6918]

I'm glad I've got my mum she remembers it well lol, there's nothing like eating and immediately throwing up to put you off certain foods though!

X x x

Hope it doesn't last much longer, I don't know what I would do if this wasn't me, I absolutely hate being sick, I have very bad nausea before 3 month Mark while being pregnant both times but I some how managed not to be sick once. I feel very happy I accomplished this lol. I do feel for you xx