Jesca
Full Member
Hi guys
I'm hoping someone on here has had a similar problem...
I am classed as severely obese, I have never been less than overweight since I was 8 years old (I'm now 32)....and I have a few concerns...
I had a friend who lost a load of weight and lost all her friends in the process because she turned into a real b****.
Basically she became all superior because she suddenly looked so good, and no-one wanted to be around her because she was unbearable, we kind of hoped it would get better but it got worse. In the end, despite my efforts to make her realise what was happening, I couldn't be around someone like that so I had to jump ship.
I'm also worried because I've spent my whole life being invisible, everyone looks past me - which sounds daft at this size but true.
So what will happen if men - for instance - suddenly start noticing me? Will I become all big-headed and unbearable and lose all my friends?
I know all this might sound so so pathetic but it's a real worry of mine, I want to change but I don't want to become a different person in any bad way, so I'm hoping to figure it all out - I don't want anything standing in my way!
I'm hoping someone on here has had a similar problem...
I am classed as severely obese, I have never been less than overweight since I was 8 years old (I'm now 32)....and I have a few concerns...
I had a friend who lost a load of weight and lost all her friends in the process because she turned into a real b****.
Basically she became all superior because she suddenly looked so good, and no-one wanted to be around her because she was unbearable, we kind of hoped it would get better but it got worse. In the end, despite my efforts to make her realise what was happening, I couldn't be around someone like that so I had to jump ship.
I'm also worried because I've spent my whole life being invisible, everyone looks past me - which sounds daft at this size but true.
So what will happen if men - for instance - suddenly start noticing me? Will I become all big-headed and unbearable and lose all my friends?
I know all this might sound so so pathetic but it's a real worry of mine, I want to change but I don't want to become a different person in any bad way, so I'm hoping to figure it all out - I don't want anything standing in my way!