O/T - breaking bad news
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Tracybackinuk
Full Member
Hi Tracy, I feel so very sorry for you. Lots of hugs from me. Tracyxx
Madferret
Mad as a Hatter
Thank you all for the fantastic comments and posts yesterday - every one has been read and then re-read and your thoughts and best wishes appreciated very much.
Today seems to be a much better day and the boys have gone to holiday club, subdued a little maybe, but at least they have gone..DS2 didn't want me to leave him and cried a little but I know that he will be fine by now..
DS1 made a beautiful thank you card for the vets last night - so we will take that in early next week when the wounds are not so raw, and thank them personally.
Now they want a puppy .....
Today seems to be a much better day and the boys have gone to holiday club, subdued a little maybe, but at least they have gone..DS2 didn't want me to leave him and cried a little but I know that he will be fine by now..
DS1 made a beautiful thank you card for the vets last night - so we will take that in early next week when the wounds are not so raw, and thank them personally.
Now they want a puppy .....
jaylou
Gold Member
pinkyfluff
Grappling with life
I am glad to hear you are all dealing with the loss well. It is a very sad time and I feel for you all. Your sons sound like me - I can't have a dog shaped hole in my life either - I need a furry lump to love. Maybe when the time is right you'll find your next furry lump too.
(((hugs)))
Georgina x
(((hugs)))
Georgina x
mommyB
love it
Glad they were ok, these things are never pleasant.
and yes , once they're over it our girls have always wanted to move onto the next pet, tho we have always waited a few weeks/months because i've never wanted them to think that pets are just 'throw away' and easily replaced. Tho i have to admit it was me after our lst cat died, i lasted 4 weeks, the house just didnt feel right without a cat!! Big kid that i am
Anyway, take care my lovely and we are all always here for you
and yes , once they're over it our girls have always wanted to move onto the next pet, tho we have always waited a few weeks/months because i've never wanted them to think that pets are just 'throw away' and easily replaced. Tho i have to admit it was me after our lst cat died, i lasted 4 weeks, the house just didnt feel right without a cat!! Big kid that i am
Anyway, take care my lovely and we are all always here for you
Madferret
Mad as a Hatter
I think it will be a long while before I relent, that is if I do at all...
Nothing will ever replace her and like you say MommyB, I want the kids to appreciate that they can't just get another one when something happens...
Anyway the sun is shining today so the world is looking a better place
Take care y'all
Tracy
Nothing will ever replace her and like you say MommyB, I want the kids to appreciate that they can't just get another one when something happens...
Anyway the sun is shining today so the world is looking a better place
Take care y'all
Tracy
Julianne_julz
Bears dont dig on dancin'
Only just read this post. So sorry for your loss, I've lost several pets (our 3 dogs, 2 cats in the last 4years!!) so know exactly how you feel 
*hugs* xxx
*hugs* xxx
charlottegrace1
Gold Member
Think your wise not to jump in with another puppy just yet. Give it time and then at least you know your haveing one because you want one and not just to try and replace a dog which will never be replaced.
