O/T I'm sooo angry...

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  1. louizekj

    louizekj Silver Member

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    I hate men!! Well obviously not all men but oooo...

    I ended up seeing one of my friends for a few months about 2 years back, we finished, he met someone else, but ever since he has still been trying to sleep with me. Now he just calls me, tells me he's moving into his house tomorrow and has set a date for his wedding in December, and can he come round to mine tonight?!!

    I'm so angry at him for making me feel like all i'm good for is one thing but even more so for the fact he can be like that when he is marrying someone!!! And also for putting me in a situation like he has..i'm friends with his fiancee!! I know not all guys are the same but ooooo...now i'm really fed up and it's killing me not being able to just go and stuff my face lol.

    Sorry for going on guys just needed to get it out!! :mad: xx
     
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    How stupid does he think you are? Tsk...!! Rant away..!
     
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    I know quite a few men, and women as a matter of fact who are just like that, why on earth they get married is beyond me.
    When the playing swine phones you next time tell him you are recording his calls, and next time he asks for a 'wam bam thankyou mam' you will be passing the recording on to his unsuspecting other half.
    He won't take liberties again in a hurry ;)
     
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    Haha yeah maybe i'm just coming across as too trusting. I don't think it's crossed his mind that i could just tell his gf! I'm shocked at myself that i didn't even think about that one! I'm usually brilliant at these things! This diet is killing brain cells as well as fat lol xx
     
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    omg what a pillock!!!

    seriously, if i was you i would cut all ties with him and put him straight - next time he asks or even mentions anything you will tell his fiancee.
     
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    Mmm you have the right idea hun! It's only made me fed up cos had a bloody awful week. Split up with my bf too! So the only good thing was my WI lol. I'm amazed i haven't completely pigged out yet!! xx
     
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    Just think of the stunning guy that you will pull with your new stunning figure!
     
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    Haha long way off that but mmm definately something to work towards :D xx
     
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    What an @rse hole he is, tell him where to go hun, you are too good for him anyway.
     
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    sounds like a complete jerk!
    i'd definitely threaten to tell the fiancee and hopefully he'll back off. your story is so close to home its amazing! my ex from 4 years ago has spent the past 4 years trying to get into my pants considering the whole reason why he broke up with me was because he realised that he could never be attracted to a fat woman. charming! he's always seeing other women and keeps calling me saying he loves me and wants me back. he just doesnt get the message that im engaged and definitely wouldnt touch him with a barge pole.

    do u think u should tell the fiancee? coz like u said you are friends with her and it just seems so wrong that she should be getting married to a guy who is blatantly unfaithful. BUT THEN...do u think she'll wanna know and more importantly will she believe you?

    i had to tell one of my friends this 2 years ago... and she never spoke to me again and is still with the guy and he's still sleeping with the same woman i told her about too :(
     
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    Aren't some of them just total k**bs!! I was going to bed last night and he turned up at the door. Needless to say he heard a few choice words and it was quickly closed back on him!

    I've no idea what to do in regards to his fiancee really! She worships him so i'm not quite sure whether she would believe me or not! I think she would probably react the same way your friend did...but you did the right thing and at least you can stand by that! :)

    Haha my life this week is beginning to feel like an episode of Eastenders! At least it's keeping my mind off the diet!xx
     
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    You did the right thing there Hun.
    I wouldn't tell his fiancee myself, sometimes you cop for a lot of flack if you do that.
    Just keep telling him that you WILL though, and also what a sh1t he is.
    Respect to you for not caving in and eating. xxxx
     
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    Ohhh i told him a lot more than that haha. I think I might have woken the neighbours up! Thanks hun! I've got ice cream, sweets, crips, all sorts in the kitchen and not even looked at it!! Can't wait till i'm just off my target like you are :D xx
     
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    He is a straight up prick
     
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    Haha say it like it is! Love it :D thanks babe thats made me laugh for the first time in a few days!xx
     
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    Well done for being so strong Louize and not letting a creep like that make you turn to food for comfort. He is so not worth it.

    Maybe you should tell him a dishy doc is doing his rounds so you don't need him anymore!
     
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    well done you for not pigging out! Thats one huge hurdle that you have completly overcome :D yey!! :D
     
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