Old timer returning for one last stab!

Hi - I don't remember you and you probably don't remember me lol. I'm restarting too after putting on everything I lost and more. No more excuses, positive thinking and I'm cracking on with it. Now in the middle of week 4 and 16lb down (I weigh in tomorrow so hopefully more). Looking forward to chatting with you and shrinking!

Sara
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Hi Sam and Sara, nice to meet you. So Sam we started on the same day on the same plan and have similar amounts to lose by the looks of things! It will be fun to see how we both do and whether losses are similar etc :D

Sara lol you're right I don't remember you, sorry :( but well done on your losses so far and hope you are pleased with your WI tomorrow!

Sharon, that's a good plan, something to aim for always helps.

And now it's Friday. Hubby's away so have no-one to distract me now! Have no plans tonight but have made plans with my best mate for tomorrow - she wanted to go for lunch but I made my excuses and so as a compromise we're going to Ikea where she can eat in the cafe if she wants while I stick to my coffee! Tomorrow night am having a girly night at mine (will not be buying any snacks in deliberately!) and then Sunday I have church and will hopefully spend some time with friends after, then may do aquafit in the evening if I can be bothered.

Then it's back to work and week 2, am determined to get through this weekend 100% - weekends are hardest for me as when I have more time to myself is when I eat, I am a boredom eater! Weighed myself this morning (first time have weighed in the morning since I started) and scales said..... 13st 4lbs! Which is 8lbs less than my pre-CD weight on the wii fit :D am really chuffed with that even though I know that my weight now at the end of the day with clothes on will be more! I am hoping to weigh at least 13.4 on my CDC scales on Tuesday so to think I'm possibly already there is really motivating.

Will have to see what happens on Tuesday but am already getting excited about it!

xxx
 
Hi wannabslim --

I, too, remember you. Welcome back. I've been on CD (ss, then 810) since Jan. 2nd. It gets easier and easier as time goes on (for the most part).

MM
 
Hi Minniemel, I remember your name but it's been a while - must have crossed paths when I was doing a brief attempt at restarting previously, thanks for popping in to say hi :)

I'm struggling a bit tonight, not feeling hungry but feeling kind of empty - in my stomach but also generally! Hubby is away for a while and I have only my boys (2 18mth old cats) to entertain me. Had to turn down a meal out with friends tonight and spend the evening in alone :( makes me sad. I'm not hungry but am not strong enough for the inevitable "question time" I'd get if I told my friends what I was up to!

Found myself in front of the TV for the first time in ages, thinking "this isn't the same without a glass of wine", so turned it off and came up to bed to sit here on my laptop and distract myself. Even tried cleaning the bathrooms (all 3) but it didn't take very long and now I've run out of jobs I can be bothered to do. Can't do everything tonight or I'll be at a complete loose end for the next week til hubby returns and messes the place up again!

So am here, with my water, and am preparing for an early night. I've had normal energy levels the last day or two but have really needed my sleep and not wanted to get up in the mornings, so I figure an early night and maybe a lie-in would be useful. Am off to ikea tomorrow for midday so wont have too much time to "waste" in the morning. If I wake up earlier than planned I'll go and have a nice long shower and do my nails etc. to fill the time.

It's funny, I am starting to realise that food is quite a central part of my life - shopping for it, planning meals, cooking, eating, cleaning up, entertaining.... it takes up a lot of my time and without it I do feel a bit lost. Of course at some point things will go back to "normal" but while food is out of the equation I'm gonna have to find some hobbies to occupy myself with.

Incidentally, I'm a body shop at home consultant and if anyone would like to do a "paper party" (I send catalogues and info, you get your friends to place orders and VOILA, you get all the "host" freebies you'd get if you hosted a party withouth any effort whatsoever) PM me and I can explain more :)

Anyhow, back to diet-related stuff, it's the wine that I've missed tonight, and my hubby. Although normally we'd get our weekly takeaway on Fridays so at least the fact that he's not here means I have missed having to sit with him while he eats my fave foods, unable to eat any myself!

Sorry for the long post, just getting it all of my chest
xx
 
Hi WBS --

It is your diary so post away... any chance that hubby could stand to srop a few pounds and would diet with you?

My DH started the South Beach diet the day I "officially" started CD. He has lost 2 stone to my 1! lol And, once I was through the "getting into ketosis" bit -- I was able to go back to shopping and cooking and my usual chores related to food with no issues. And, because he is South Beaching it -- I have spent time researching recipes and trying different things.

A while back we had a discussion about "food porn" on the forum. How some of us turn into feeders when we are no longer eaters... I am one of those.

If I became a chef... I'd probably waste away! ;)

Have you read through Judith Beck's book? It is about retraining your thinking so that you can make permanent changes in your relationship with food -- and therefore maintain your losses.

MM
 
Hi hun, thanks for that recommendation, will look out for that author!!

My hubby is 6'6'' and lean with a lot of muscle (in my opinion his body is "smoooookin'!"). He plays footie 4 times a week and generally doesn't eat a lot so has no excess weight to lose. Lol in some ways maybe this adds to my self-consciousness, as he is so toned and slender!

He is generally very supportive of the fact I'm dieting though and tries to keep my favourite foods away from me when he's eating them as he knows it could make it harder for me if I'm having a tough time and he's there wafting delicious smells and tempting me with it!

Last night had an omlette with mushrooms and a teensy bit of low fat cheese sprinkled in as I was really struggling - kept me away from the crisps and pizza and cheese is low carb so ensured i didn't come out of ketosis. It was only the tiniest amount though so I don't feel bad about it. Damage limitation!

But today I have started as I mean to go on - a big glass of cold, fresh water, and a sense of determination! Have friends coming round tonight and am hoping they aren't gonna bring any lovely snacks with them as if they do they'll expect to see me eating with them, and I don't wanna tell everyone I'm doing CD as they don't need to know and will judge me (they are very anti diets like this!).

Hope you all have a great day, will probs catch up again tomorrow if not today.

xxx
 
Hi WannabeSlim

I'm here too - after making a real mess of the weight I had lost last time. Didn't put it all back on thank goodness, but hadn't got to target last time either, so have a fair wee chunk I need to "dispose" of.

Glad to hear you motivated and determined.

I have broken the habits of a lifetime and JOINED THE GYM.

Finding it quite tiring but sticking to ss so far.

Nelli
 
Its hard isnt it.... I dont actually want my friends or my husband to know I am doing CD... I went to the ballet last night with some girlfriends and made the consious decision to eat low carb but still have a couple of glasses of wine...

As I have done the diet SS before and know how it can curtail my social life I have decided to have a couple of glasses of wine once a week... I know this way is not right for everyone and will probably slow down my losses, but I really do think its the only way for me at the moment.

Best of luck for today...

Katie x
 
Hi WBS, ND, and Sam --

I think again the Beck book explains who you need adapt what you are doing fro a weight loss programme to your life and needs. If your social life is important and a you are prepared to accept a slower rate of weight loss because of having a couple of glasses of wine a week, then that is okay (except that you should 810 on days you consume alcohol).

As far as the friends go -- have your shake or soup right before they arrive, and if they ask why you aren't snacking you say that you just ate. If they push it -- tell them you are on a health kick.

MM
 
Hi Wannab

I remember you. I'm about to get restarted (again, LOL).

Really good to see you're doing well!
 
Hiya Lily, Nelli, I remember you guys!! Thanks for joining me on my little thread :) nice to see so many familiar faces in here! Makes me feel like I'm not alone in this.

Katie, I couldn't drink wine, it would be the end of my diet lol, I get the munchies when I drink and I am avoiding the munchies as far as possible! A low carb "damage limitation" option is about as far as I'll go. But generally I am trying to avoid food altogether, and anything that's banned. I felt quite guilty towards myself for eating the cheese the other night but at the same time I was pleased that I was sensible and didn't do any damage to my diet when I so easily could have.

That said, it's update time...

I went to Ikea yesterday. Had a shake in the morning, then met my friend in town. After 3 hours I was so thirsty, and my friend was hungry so we stopped for lunch in the restaurant. She had meatballs and as I didn't want her to know about my diet I opted for the same WITHOUT the potatoes and with only a teeny bit of gravy, served with peas (rather than meatballs and chips smothered in gravy as she did!), with a coffee to drink. I don't know what the content of the meatballs was but don't think it knocked me out of ketosis so it must be ok. Had the small portion so as to limit any damage.

We then spent a further 4 hours in town- 7 hours of walking about, my legs and feet were killing me! Reckon I earnt my lunch ;)

In the evening I had the girls over for a night of girly chat and it was lovely. I bought a pack of biscuits for them which they demolished, and one girl brought some salt and vinegar chipsticks to share which they also demolished. (they are my fave crisps! :() I was so pleased with myself for not even being tempted, it was no effort to ignore the snacks and nobody noticed :)

During my shopping trip yesterday I bought an espresso machine. Also picked up some latte and espresso glasses, a milk frother jug and thermometer, and some nice coffee, syrups and choc springles. Got it all home and was so excited! However, although the machine worked fine when I tested it, an hour later when I went to make coffee for my friends it leaked everywhere and was clearly faulty. So today I took it back and got a refund. Then bought a different one which my friend has and I know it's good value, also know how to use it already so that's a bonus.

I got my new machine home and it worked fine first time, so easy to use. Had some friends round for the afternoon and we enjoyed lattes together :) I felt like I had enjoyed a real treat (didn't have the syrup) and realised that I can replace food with coffee for the time being (it takes a little while to make and then to enjoy so it "fills the gap" where I'd normally be preparing and eating dinner!).

Have decided to have a daily latte at "dinner" time as I found it very filling and am so pleased with my purchase :) my new favourite toy.

Spent the afternoon chatting and playing Wii Monopoly, I brought some quality street chocs out for my friends and avoided them easily, also turning down jam donuts which they'd brought with them. I actually told the 2 of them about being on the diet as I trusted them to be supportive, and they were (these 2 are the loveliest girls I've ever met and I would have been shocked if they'd reacted badly!).

In reflection on this weekend, when I have eaten it has only been as a means of damage limitation whilst attempting to avoid discussing the diet with people, but actually I did not really WANT the food and it came home to me this afternoon when the choccies came out that actually I am really "in the zone" at the moment and this makes me feel quite encouraged!

Back to work tomorrow then WI on Tues. Blimey, just realised I've now done a week of SS+! Forgot I started on Monday!! Wonder what I've lost.... trying to not weigh again til Tues but tomorrow may see a sneaky peak on the scales, am too excited to wait!

Hubby back briefly tonight before going away for another 5 days. He walked in and said "hey skinny" - he is a flatterer but he wouldn't have said that if he hadn't noticed the change in my shape. He and my friends have all commented that my face, neck and belly have changed and I look better already - it's so encouraging when you know you've lost enough for people to notice! Now to keep it going :)

xxx
 
WBS --

Good choices on the food, and it sounds as if you might have some really good support out there. I have coffee maker I love -- and I have been drinking a lot of coffee. But, I have made a new rule for myself -- I have to alternate coffee with water. I am pretty sure I drank my 2.5 liters today (if not more).

Nite -- and good luck with the weigh in. I see my CDC tomorrow -- and 2 pounds is the best I can expect, I think.

MM
 
Thanks MM, that sounds like a good idea, will try that today! Yep I consider myself lucky to have such lovely friends :)

Trying to drink more water today as been feeling a bit light-headed and headachey. Otherwise am feelin pretty good x
 
Sounds like you had a full Sunday and well done on your first week of SS+

I am ss'ing - again as I don't fully trust myself to eat anything at all. However, thinking that maybe when I get to week 9 I might reconsider and try ss+ for a while.

Am a bit down today as I only lost 3lb again this week and I noticed in another thread someone with that sort of lose on a calorie / carb counting exercise.

Good luck for the weigh in tomorrow.

Nelli
 
Hey hun,

Don't be disheartened, 3lbs is a good loss and maybe you are retaining water? Am pretty sure you'll see a fab loss next WI!! :D just stick with it. Sometime people may lose 3lbs on other diets, but that won't be every week, whereas for us we can enjoy an average of 3-3.5lbs EVERY week...so we just need to remember that the weeks where we see smaller losses will be made up for on other weeks with bigger losses. If we're sticking to it, we can't help but lose lots!

Feeling a bit better after a hot shower and a few drinks. Still need to drink more though. Lookin forward to WI tomorrow :)

xxx
 
Hi WBS --

I hope that work went well (or is going well) and that you do well on your weigh in tomorrow. The coffee and water alternating is going well -- but I am going to have to buy more loo roll soon. ;)

MM
 
Thanks hun, haven't actually been into work today as felt so ill this morning, woke up with migraine symptoms so called in sick. Felt much better by late morning but still not quite right so decided not to risk going in. I'm still feeling a bit odd, but hoping by tomorrow will be back to my usual self xx
 
Wowsers, just had my second pack of the day - really struggled to get it down me and now I feel slightly sick. This has happened on previous stints on CD and it has led to me skipping packs which I am NOT prepared to do. I don't have the same problem with the ready mixed cartons - does anyone else find this?

I would split the packs but then I KNOW I'd never get them all in - struggle to rememeber to have 3 drinks as it is, 6 would be impossible.

Am gonna have a tetra as my third pack before bed - good job I have a couple left before my WI tomorrow as I don't think I could do another normal pack now!

Getting excited about tomorrow - just "went" for the first time in a few days IYKWIM (sorry if TMI) but reckon that'll help tomorrow too :) hoping for 10lbs off.

Catch you tomorrow x
 
Good luck tomorrow, and I hope you are feeling better tomorrow.
 
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