big bear
A bear on a mission!
Ok this is my MIL and I always feel as if I'm in the wrong so I'm asking your opinions to just check it's not just my hormones.
Scenario 1
H and MIL went out this morning to get a few things in the shops with my DS who is 22 months old. MIL dropped my H back and took DS to her house to see his grandad and give us a few hours break.
She'd only gone about 10 minutes and she came back because H left shopping in the car. She left my son in the car to come up to give us the bag of shopping. He was asleep but I live on the 3rd floor which is 2 flights of stairs. DS was out in the car on a busy road. I think this is bang out of order and it's not the first time she's left him in the car. She thinks there is absolutely nothing wrong with this. Am I over reacting??
Scenario 2
MIL has a 'SPARE' key to our flat in case we lock ourselves out or for emergencies. She let herself into our flat yesterday when I was in bed asleep and H had taken our son to the park. She never knocks at all always just opens the door herself & let's herself in. I've told H that he's to get the key back before baby 2 is born as I don't want her walking in. Do you think I'm being reasonable with regards this? I know if my Mum had a key she'd always knock & wouldn't come in if there was no answer & wouldn't turn up unannounced unfortunately she lives in Ireland.
I keep getting told I'm over reacting and she's 'ONLY HELPING'
Over to you opinions please.
Scenario 1
H and MIL went out this morning to get a few things in the shops with my DS who is 22 months old. MIL dropped my H back and took DS to her house to see his grandad and give us a few hours break.
She'd only gone about 10 minutes and she came back because H left shopping in the car. She left my son in the car to come up to give us the bag of shopping. He was asleep but I live on the 3rd floor which is 2 flights of stairs. DS was out in the car on a busy road. I think this is bang out of order and it's not the first time she's left him in the car. She thinks there is absolutely nothing wrong with this. Am I over reacting??
Scenario 2
MIL has a 'SPARE' key to our flat in case we lock ourselves out or for emergencies. She let herself into our flat yesterday when I was in bed asleep and H had taken our son to the park. She never knocks at all always just opens the door herself & let's herself in. I've told H that he's to get the key back before baby 2 is born as I don't want her walking in. Do you think I'm being reasonable with regards this? I know if my Mum had a key she'd always knock & wouldn't come in if there was no answer & wouldn't turn up unannounced unfortunately she lives in Ireland.
I keep getting told I'm over reacting and she's 'ONLY HELPING'
Over to you opinions please.