I am so with you!! One of my friends (doesn't feel like she is my friend at the moment) are like its bad for you, have a drink, just have sum chips, you aren't that fat etc, well I know for a fact when we all go on Holiday together she is going to be jealous of my body so that now she is trying to push me off so she will look better. In my heart I know she doesn't mean it he way I see it, but my partner can see what she's doing also and is an even better encouragement! I can't wait when I walk out in a stunning bikini on he beach and wear a stunning, tight fitted dress in the evening and say, "now how do I look"?? Haha, pure joy!