Morning girlies
I AM STRESSED! NEED ADVICE!!! Am friends with a lovely bunch of girlies at uni, but one of them owes all of us money. Over 300.00 between three of us. She is the oldest out of all of us and also earns more than any of us. But alas, we have lent money in the past, months ago, on the promise we would have it back within two weeks. Three months later, a load of fibs about paying, ie. ill pay you friday! and were all still waiting. Were all still friends but this has caused a bit of friction. One of our girls is only a baby really, lost her mum and dad, and is trying to bring up her younger sisters, and she even asked her for money too. We all feel this was way out of order.
Anyhoo, im going of the point, yesterday i had three missed calls late at night, asking could i lend £30.00. Now i know that this sounds like a tiny amount, but i basically know that anything i lend out to her, i am writing off, i will not get it back. She gave me a lift to uni, so i gave her 15.00 petrol money, but have said that i cant lend her the £30. now im being told that its for nappies etc, and i feel like crap, i feel guilty. But she has lied to us all so many times. Do you think im mean? I would lend any of my friends anything, but every other word out of this womans mouth is lies and she has been a bit sly. xx