eternity
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My OH's brother is getting married in Ireland at Easter but isn't inviting any children. We understand that but it means that we can't go because we have no one to look after our son.
Should we say why we aren't going on the refusal or just let the reason filter down through the rest of the family?
My OH isn't close to this particular brother and we don't want to make a fuss, but we don't want to be the bad guys by not going either. My MIL suggests that my OH should leave us behind and go by himself but he doesn't want to do that.
Should we say why we aren't going on the refusal or just let the reason filter down through the rest of the family?
My OH isn't close to this particular brother and we don't want to make a fuss, but we don't want to be the bad guys by not going either. My MIL suggests that my OH should leave us behind and go by himself but he doesn't want to do that.