x-Katie-x
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Next Saturday (and probably the day before) are going to be planned days off for me as it's my daughter inlaw's to be hen day/night. It's strange because though I'm doing it I'm not eagerly looking forward to it (the eating and drinking I mean, not the day).
I had originally planned not to go as I don't feel like I can go and not eat/drink as to be honest I don't know any of these people except for the bride to be and possibly my daughter might come along.
I'd told my d-i-l that I wasn't going to go but as the day has got closer well I just feel cruel, she's only ever going to have this one day and I hate to miss it or for her to have any feelings that I didn't want to be there when I really do want to be there to see her, I mean this is my son she's marrying and I want every bit of it to be happy for them both.
Not really sure what my 'issue' is, or even if I have one -- just feels really strange as if I've ever done a vlcd and had a planned day off then I'd really looked forward to the food/drink whereas this time I'm not - maybe this is because this time it feels right to be doing the diet.
Anyway it's 2 days off (need Friday to get some carbs for the alcohol) and then that's it, back on it until the wedding on the 6th November ---- seriously hoping (and yes believing) that all will go to plan!
I had originally planned not to go as I don't feel like I can go and not eat/drink as to be honest I don't know any of these people except for the bride to be and possibly my daughter might come along.
I'd told my d-i-l that I wasn't going to go but as the day has got closer well I just feel cruel, she's only ever going to have this one day and I hate to miss it or for her to have any feelings that I didn't want to be there when I really do want to be there to see her, I mean this is my son she's marrying and I want every bit of it to be happy for them both.
Not really sure what my 'issue' is, or even if I have one -- just feels really strange as if I've ever done a vlcd and had a planned day off then I'd really looked forward to the food/drink whereas this time I'm not - maybe this is because this time it feels right to be doing the diet.
Anyway it's 2 days off (need Friday to get some carbs for the alcohol) and then that's it, back on it until the wedding on the 6th November ---- seriously hoping (and yes believing) that all will go to plan!