Bananadrama
Silver Member
I probably shouldn't be and I know people are going to tell me to ignore it but I just can't! I've been doing exante for 4 weeks now, the first 3 weeks were fab then last week, due to totm and having a bad cold I sort of came off plan a bit, anyway, I have maintained which I'm pleased about but trying REALLY hard to get back on track and stay there as it's only 18 weeks until my wedding.....my O/H knows how hard I'm finding it to get bk on track so what's he done today?...rather than buying healthy food (he's supposed to be getting healthy too) he's bought himself 2 packets of hobnobs, a pepperoni pizza, doritos and dips and beer! I just feel really alone today with this and I know I shouldn't but I do. I even moved away from him just now whilst he sists there scoffing and he came into the kitchen said "sorry for not supporting" then topped his dish up with doritos and walked off! GRRRR
Also, we want another baby next year and before we can try, I really need to get to a healthy weight as suffered with pregnancy diabetes with the first and will NOT let it happen again...O/H said he wants to loseweight so he can be a healthy day etc but he's doing nothing about it and it just seems like it's all me trying to lose weight, trying to be strong and all I want is a bit of support from him. I know he wants another baby as much as I do but I've told him it's not fair to expect me to do this on my own and until we've BOTH lost weight, we're not going to even try...still, he carried on as usual.
So sorry to come on here and moan but I don't know what else to do as no-one understands what this is like when it gets really hard.
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Also, we want another baby next year and before we can try, I really need to get to a healthy weight as suffered with pregnancy diabetes with the first and will NOT let it happen again...O/H said he wants to loseweight so he can be a healthy day etc but he's doing nothing about it and it just seems like it's all me trying to lose weight, trying to be strong and all I want is a bit of support from him. I know he wants another baby as much as I do but I've told him it's not fair to expect me to do this on my own and until we've BOTH lost weight, we're not going to even try...still, he carried on as usual.
So sorry to come on here and moan but I don't know what else to do as no-one understands what this is like when it gets really hard.
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