blufizz
Full Member
Just wanted to add my 2 cents.
I think meeting people online is just as hard as meeting someone in real life. You have to be in the right place at the right time. To me it sounds like you guys are really enjoying a good friendship online and that's a great way to start out, it's the ones who won't talk to ya unless it's in person you need to watch out for.
I met my fiance through friends but the first times I spoke to him were online. There were 3 occasions we could have met in person just by being at the same events but something always came up so one of us couldn't go. Eventually he bit the bullet and travelled 500 miles from his home in Scotland to Norfolk to meet me and see how we got on. 5 years on and we're still mad about each other.
So have faith, be safe and enjoy the tingly lovey feeling
hiya and thanks for your post...all advice welcome lol
both he and i have agreed what is developing is something slightly more than just a friendship...
but i guess it all boils down to if/when we actually meet....he may change his mind lol...or me....were both guilty(as weve found out) of over analysing situations and talking ourselves out of doing things were not sure of
...but this time i wont be doing that..im way too curious to see if we get on in real life lol....i need to know if we get on...
i cant beleive your guy came all that way!
he really must have liked what he saw online and what a step for a guy to take considering the distance!
Its funny my little sis met her fiance online too....and shes very happy!...
id like to be one of the happy stories lol...so as long as hes not some pervy weirdo whoes lied bout his height and the attraction really is mutual...itl be fine i guess