lumpyandbumpy
Silver Member
Sorry need a bit of a rant... Im not one to draw attention to myself or fish for compliments but everyone has commented on my weight loss so farand its really nice to have that recognition. My cousin has never commented on my loss only to ask about my diet and asking things like ‘have u caved in yet?’ and ‘what if all the weight goes back on when you stop dieting?’ which i hope it wont as i plan to follow slimming world after CD. When i have said i’ve lost 2 stone since march she just says ‘oh have u?’ not being funny but its sooo noticeable!
The other day we were talking about my friends wedding in august and she said that if i wanted i could borrow a dress of hers coz i had a ‘much smaller bust than hers’!! i declined the offer saying i wanted to treat myself to something nice coz i feel more confident wearing more fitted clothes now and she said ‘but what if you put all the weight back on by then?’ cheek!! Seeing as she’d offered me a dress to wear, i asked her if i could borrow another nice dress she had for a party im going to this wkend, to which she replied ‘oh i don’t think it would be the right fit on you coz its a size 8, might be a bit too fitted’ WTF like?? She’s is clearly bigger than me, she's a dress size 16, don’t mean to sound nasty as i’m not meaning to comment on her weight, but how would it fit her and not me?? As i said i’m not looking for her or anyone to shower me with compliments but it seems like shes always trying to make me feel like crap about my figure, insinuating i cant get into a size 8 dress when she can (!) and just not being very supportive in general. I usually ignore it but i feel its getting on top of me now L
The other day we were talking about my friends wedding in august and she said that if i wanted i could borrow a dress of hers coz i had a ‘much smaller bust than hers’!! i declined the offer saying i wanted to treat myself to something nice coz i feel more confident wearing more fitted clothes now and she said ‘but what if you put all the weight back on by then?’ cheek!! Seeing as she’d offered me a dress to wear, i asked her if i could borrow another nice dress she had for a party im going to this wkend, to which she replied ‘oh i don’t think it would be the right fit on you coz its a size 8, might be a bit too fitted’ WTF like?? She’s is clearly bigger than me, she's a dress size 16, don’t mean to sound nasty as i’m not meaning to comment on her weight, but how would it fit her and not me?? As i said i’m not looking for her or anyone to shower me with compliments but it seems like shes always trying to make me feel like crap about my figure, insinuating i cant get into a size 8 dress when she can (!) and just not being very supportive in general. I usually ignore it but i feel its getting on top of me now L