Hi there Deryn
Gosh i could have written this post myself. me and my hubby were in the exact same position in January this year. we rented our house out for 4 years, tenant was always a bit of a crank, but essentially she always paid the rent. She did a bunk in January, i still have her deposit but she owes me far more, cost us a fortune to get the house back to what it was and she also owed us 2/3 months rent.
But although the emotional strain it caused us was awful, i have high blood pressure, in the end, we decided against taking court action. it costs 80.00 to lodge in a small claims court, but unless the tenants have any money, its nigh on impossible that they will have to pay it all back! We just said good riddens, and in the long run its absolutely worked out the best for us. We had to relocate and move back home into our house, but i believe in karma, and im glad now that we are back, although we never planned on moving back from down south. The emotional stress it would have caused both of us to pursue it would have just been too much. I was an estate agent for 8 years so knew where i stood. I really hope you manage to sort it all out, and good on ya if you do go through the courts, theres nothing to say it wont work for you!!! xx