kel86
Silver Member
Glad your all sorted Hun, bet ya feel loads better now ya gettin straight.
Hope ya pain eases soon
Good luck with weigh in if its a gain don't dwell on it you'll have a fab week next week. Xx
This time I will do it!!...
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Glad your all sorted Hun, bet ya feel loads better now ya gettin straight.
Hope ya pain eases soon
Good luck with weigh in if its a gain don't dwell on it you'll have a fab week next week. Xx
Texty_F
Gold Member
Thats fantastic hun very well done, I know you were stressing about what you had eaten. You will have a great week now you can chill a bit. Physio is painful but if it works hun it will be worth it.
Well Im having a sh*t time at work at the mo, hopefully get it knocked on the head tomorrow, physio wise I may have progress, I turned up tonight and she didnt touch me, she is referring me to her specialist team, they may do x rays or an MRI scan, watch this space
at least its a move forward I think lol
Well Im having a sh*t time at work at the mo, hopefully get it knocked on the head tomorrow, physio wise I may have progress, I turned up tonight and she didnt touch me, she is referring me to her specialist team, they may do x rays or an MRI scan, watch this space
at least its a move forward I think lol
Texty_F
Gold Member
I just hope I dont have to wait too long, she knows im going on holiday on the 15th she said she would tell them this.
The work situation is - the paranoid woman who sits diagonal to me "thinks" she heard me talking on the phone to a colleague about her. She could only hear me and not the convo at the other end, so I dont know what she is assuming. Anyway that was 2 weeks ago, she hasnt spoken to me since (which is causing an atmosphere on the section), so I mentioned what had happened to the boss just in case anything came of it. Then on the Monday when i got into work I walked in on 3 others talking about me - what I should have done was said " dont let me interrupt" but I was so angry I just sat down and got on with my work all day but was veryyyyyy quiet. The following day on the way home, 1 of the 3 walked out with me and said are you ok ( red rag to a bull) I said do I effing look ok!!! no imm pi$$ed off at the lot of ya. She said I knew you had caught us talking about you and told the others we should have told you what the conversation was about instead of letting you fester. I went to see the union rep that afternoon for advise I asked what the consequences would be if I blew my top on the section. She told me whats happening is tant amount to bullying, and it needs addressing. I have since found out the same paranoid queen thinks there is something going on with me and another girl purely because we went to the canteen together for a jacket spud. WTF!!! she needs a life.
She has also been texting the girl who sits opposite me and telling her what she "thinks" is going on and she has been e mailing her too, they both sit on my bank of desks, the girl she has been texting actually told me about it yesterday, cos she couldnt not as once again I caught 2 of them talking about me.
I told her to mind her own business and tell the paranoia queen to stop texting her, its between me and her. I have my end of year report tomorrow with my boss and i will not hold back
Sorry ive hi jacked ya page lol
The work situation is - the paranoid woman who sits diagonal to me "thinks" she heard me talking on the phone to a colleague about her. She could only hear me and not the convo at the other end, so I dont know what she is assuming. Anyway that was 2 weeks ago, she hasnt spoken to me since (which is causing an atmosphere on the section), so I mentioned what had happened to the boss just in case anything came of it. Then on the Monday when i got into work I walked in on 3 others talking about me - what I should have done was said " dont let me interrupt" but I was so angry I just sat down and got on with my work all day but was veryyyyyy quiet. The following day on the way home, 1 of the 3 walked out with me and said are you ok ( red rag to a bull) I said do I effing look ok!!! no imm pi$$ed off at the lot of ya. She said I knew you had caught us talking about you and told the others we should have told you what the conversation was about instead of letting you fester. I went to see the union rep that afternoon for advise I asked what the consequences would be if I blew my top on the section. She told me whats happening is tant amount to bullying, and it needs addressing. I have since found out the same paranoid queen thinks there is something going on with me and another girl purely because we went to the canteen together for a jacket spud. WTF!!! she needs a life.
She has also been texting the girl who sits opposite me and telling her what she "thinks" is going on and she has been e mailing her too, they both sit on my bank of desks, the girl she has been texting actually told me about it yesterday, cos she couldnt not as once again I caught 2 of them talking about me.
I told her to mind her own business and tell the paranoia queen to stop texting her, its between me and her. I have my end of year report tomorrow with my boss and i will not hold back
Sorry ive hi jacked ya page lol
jo-85
Gold Member
I know it's not funny Hun but that did make me lol
Well your doing the right thing speaking to management and union so that u don't do that and before u know it it's u unfairly in the crap! X
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jo-85
Gold Member
flabtofit
Gold Member
Oh hun! Well for a start I HATE people talking about others behind their back. Personally, I think that if anyone has something to say they should be brave enough to say it to your face and give you the opportunity to respond/address the situation.
It is bullying hun if people are talking behind your back and deliberately making you feel uncomfortable.
Secondly, if your boss is aware that there is issues on the section/with the 'paranoid' woman then why hasn't it been dealt with before now?!
I know it's awful and you must hate going to work at the min but your right in consulting you union rep - the union are there to help and advise you on what to do that is best for YOU and you really need that at the mo.
B1tch!! Do you want me to come to work and tell her to grow a pair and get on with her own life and stop creating situations in other peoples?
<<hugs>>
It is bullying hun if people are talking behind your back and deliberately making you feel uncomfortable.
Secondly, if your boss is aware that there is issues on the section/with the 'paranoid' woman then why hasn't it been dealt with before now?!
I know it's awful and you must hate going to work at the min but your right in consulting you union rep - the union are there to help and advise you on what to do that is best for YOU and you really need that at the mo.
B1tch!! Do you want me to come to work and tell her to grow a pair and get on with her own life and stop creating situations in other peoples?
<<hugs>>
flabtofit
Gold Member
Thanks hun.
Bought the new SW mag at group last night so an going to read that with a cuppa later when the kids are quiet for some inspiration
Have decided to do a 100% week, taking it one 100% day at a time just to see how much I can actually lose when I stick to plan and to 'prove' to myself that I can do this.
Feeling super motivated today, hope it continues! X
Bought the new SW mag at group last night so an going to read that with a cuppa later when the kids are quiet for some inspiration
Have decided to do a 100% week, taking it one 100% day at a time just to see how much I can actually lose when I stick to plan and to 'prove' to myself that I can do this.
Feeling super motivated today, hope it continues! X
