When I want in for my midwife appointment (she isn't the nicest midwife I get)around 4 weeks ago and she mentioned that I should fill in my birth plan and they don't recommend anyone using pethadine as if affects the baby, so I got told to fill in my birth plan but then got told not to use pethadine, lol alrighty then, I still haven't filled it out, I will just go with the flow if I can do it with gas and air then I will and if I can get pain relief I'm not gonna refuse it, she also tried to make me choose breastfeeding, safe to say I prefer the other midwifes I see there not blunt and push things on me :/