trisha
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I can only echo what everyone else has said. The retard comment would only be a throw way one like everyone has said. I work in a secondary school, and the kids are forever calling their parents (and each other) such names, one will say"my mum/dad is a retard they just don't understand" then the friend will say " well mines a bigger retard because ....." it seems to be the "in word" at the moment as for the swearing, they do it because their friends all do it, and as for the sites most of the teenagers I know go on and have accounts on these sites, they talk about them at school you've just got to trust her and let her know you trust her.
My daughter is now 18, but when she was in year 10 ( so she would have been 14/15) used to talk to a boy from London on msn messenger who she met on some sort of game website, she told me about him, and showed me some of their conversations. I just told her to be careful, that he might not be who he says he is etc, and that she could never meet him alone if he ever suggested it. Later he used to ring her on her mobile, and they would chat. She never did meet him, and eventually they stopped talking.
I was lucky because my daughter would and still does talk to me. I'm sure she doesn't tell me everything, but she will talk. Maybe she talked to me because I worked in the school she went to, and I would probably get to hear about it anyway, I don't know but I'm just glad she did.
My daughter is now 18, but when she was in year 10 ( so she would have been 14/15) used to talk to a boy from London on msn messenger who she met on some sort of game website, she told me about him, and showed me some of their conversations. I just told her to be careful, that he might not be who he says he is etc, and that she could never meet him alone if he ever suggested it. Later he used to ring her on her mobile, and they would chat. She never did meet him, and eventually they stopped talking.
I was lucky because my daughter would and still does talk to me. I'm sure she doesn't tell me everything, but she will talk. Maybe she talked to me because I worked in the school she went to, and I would probably get to hear about it anyway, I don't know but I'm just glad she did.