CamilleBates
Alomst there :)
Sorry I just need to get this off my chest, it's been playing on my mind for a few days now
Why do some people feel like they should tell you what to do?
I'm talking about my weight loss. Last week I had someone tell me I shouldn't lose any more weight. Ok, that in it's self isn't too bad.... But he played the 'as a bloke' card'.... why the hell would I care if a fat, middle aged man finds me attractive or not?
I had another bloke mention something about me losing my t*ts since I've lost all the weight.... I'm pleased about that I hated them big! (I also think he sabotages me to get me to try and drink - he seems a bit strange about the fact I don't drink like I used to.)
I was small when I met my (now) DH and he prefers small boobed, slim women. Probably one of the reasons he went for me in the first place! He has loved me no matter what, and gaining weight was never an issue. Looks aren't everything, but they do mean something!! I'm not doing it for my DH , I'm doing it for me - but my DH is happy that he's getting me back the way I was before, with the added confidence that I used to have to boot.
Am I really doing something that wrong by being at a size I'm happy with, and one that my DH likes too??
Sorry for the rant, I just needed to get it off my chest. I didn't think it was bothering me, but it is.
(oh and for the record, I'm a size 8-10... it's not like I'm a size 0!)
Why do some people feel like they should tell you what to do?
I'm talking about my weight loss. Last week I had someone tell me I shouldn't lose any more weight. Ok, that in it's self isn't too bad.... But he played the 'as a bloke' card'.... why the hell would I care if a fat, middle aged man finds me attractive or not?
I had another bloke mention something about me losing my t*ts since I've lost all the weight.... I'm pleased about that I hated them big! (I also think he sabotages me to get me to try and drink - he seems a bit strange about the fact I don't drink like I used to.)
I was small when I met my (now) DH and he prefers small boobed, slim women. Probably one of the reasons he went for me in the first place! He has loved me no matter what, and gaining weight was never an issue. Looks aren't everything, but they do mean something!! I'm not doing it for my DH , I'm doing it for me - but my DH is happy that he's getting me back the way I was before, with the added confidence that I used to have to boot.
Am I really doing something that wrong by being at a size I'm happy with, and one that my DH likes too??
Sorry for the rant, I just needed to get it off my chest. I didn't think it was bothering me, but it is.
(oh and for the record, I'm a size 8-10... it's not like I'm a size 0!)