Hi,
I could do with some feedback on this. In January I rejoined SW with a 12 week countdown.My weight loss went well and I got my first half stone sticker in 2 weeks.
Then I had a bit of a disaster, I was ill in hospital with a burst appendix and am still not very well - I've missed I think 3 weeks, I've lost track.
My issue is this - in all the previous groups I've been to the leader would be supportive of members between meetings, sending texts and emails and if someone suddenly went missing like I have, they would be asking if that person was Ok. The leader of this group has done nothing like this.
Also, at the groups, I felt very ignored. she missed me out when going round the group, then realised, said my loss and then asked what my goal for next week was - other members got the more intensive chat/support. This seems a very petty issue but as I also felt this was the most cliquey of all the groups I've ever been to (and I've been to a fair number, ms yo yo dieter that I am). On my third session I sat next to a group of people and tried to talk to them without much success, then another group sat the other side of me and the two groups talked over me, totally ignoring me until one lot got up and moved so they could talk without going over me.
All in all this gives me a very bad impression of this group and if I was new to SW I'd vow never to have anything to do with the organisation again.
Now, I could just go back to the lovely local group that I was just ashamed to go back to 'cos of trying and failing so many times but I don't know that I want to leave it there.
I could go back to the group I'm unhappy with and talk to the C, or talk to head office. This woman in an area co-cordinator for heavens sake.
Maybe I am being petty but I do feel let down by this group.
Also does anyone know the rules for a count down when you've missed sessions due to ill health? It would be nice to get some time back but I'm not expecting it.
Thanks.
I could do with some feedback on this. In January I rejoined SW with a 12 week countdown.My weight loss went well and I got my first half stone sticker in 2 weeks.
Then I had a bit of a disaster, I was ill in hospital with a burst appendix and am still not very well - I've missed I think 3 weeks, I've lost track.
My issue is this - in all the previous groups I've been to the leader would be supportive of members between meetings, sending texts and emails and if someone suddenly went missing like I have, they would be asking if that person was Ok. The leader of this group has done nothing like this.
Also, at the groups, I felt very ignored. she missed me out when going round the group, then realised, said my loss and then asked what my goal for next week was - other members got the more intensive chat/support. This seems a very petty issue but as I also felt this was the most cliquey of all the groups I've ever been to (and I've been to a fair number, ms yo yo dieter that I am). On my third session I sat next to a group of people and tried to talk to them without much success, then another group sat the other side of me and the two groups talked over me, totally ignoring me until one lot got up and moved so they could talk without going over me.
All in all this gives me a very bad impression of this group and if I was new to SW I'd vow never to have anything to do with the organisation again.
Now, I could just go back to the lovely local group that I was just ashamed to go back to 'cos of trying and failing so many times but I don't know that I want to leave it there.
I could go back to the group I'm unhappy with and talk to the C, or talk to head office. This woman in an area co-cordinator for heavens sake.
Maybe I am being petty but I do feel let down by this group.
Also does anyone know the rules for a count down when you've missed sessions due to ill health? It would be nice to get some time back but I'm not expecting it.
Thanks.