Hi,
Went out last week with my husband and friends was feeling great, i came downstairs after getting ready and both my mum and hubby said how nice I looked and that you could really see how much weight I have lost. Any way we went out didn't hit it off with one of his friends new girlfriends, she ignored me and flirted with my husband all night. I ignored it as they were all drinking and I put it down to that.
In the end the night got out of hand hubby and his mate/boss had a bit of a row and a brawl. Then the charming new girlfriend starting shouting at me, I stuck up for myself but what hurt the most is that she looked me up and down and said "look at you, look at the state of you no wonder he has affairs you will never make him happy"
I am 99.9% sure this is untrue as we are happy, he hasn't got time for affairs as we also work together, so we know where or what that other one is doing all the time, but why be so nasty.
I wanted to come home and hide away and stuff my face, I didn't beacuse I knew it would make me feel worse. I didn't make it to the LL meeting last week, it was the morning after all this so I txt LLC said couldnt make it and then phoned the her and explained why mid week. I even said on the phone that I had bought packs off a friend who couldn't stick to the plan.
I went to be weighed yesterday thinking all was well. Had a loss another 6.5lbs, was really happy with that, and then LLC got snotty and said well that is over 2 weeks and by rights you should have paid for last week.
Am I now being over sensitive or are people just nasty and hate seeing me with more confidence? I wouldnt care but I'm not overconfident in a cocky way I just dont hold my head low anymore
Went out last week with my husband and friends was feeling great, i came downstairs after getting ready and both my mum and hubby said how nice I looked and that you could really see how much weight I have lost. Any way we went out didn't hit it off with one of his friends new girlfriends, she ignored me and flirted with my husband all night. I ignored it as they were all drinking and I put it down to that.
In the end the night got out of hand hubby and his mate/boss had a bit of a row and a brawl. Then the charming new girlfriend starting shouting at me, I stuck up for myself but what hurt the most is that she looked me up and down and said "look at you, look at the state of you no wonder he has affairs you will never make him happy"
I am 99.9% sure this is untrue as we are happy, he hasn't got time for affairs as we also work together, so we know where or what that other one is doing all the time, but why be so nasty.
I wanted to come home and hide away and stuff my face, I didn't beacuse I knew it would make me feel worse. I didn't make it to the LL meeting last week, it was the morning after all this so I txt LLC said couldnt make it and then phoned the her and explained why mid week. I even said on the phone that I had bought packs off a friend who couldn't stick to the plan.
I went to be weighed yesterday thinking all was well. Had a loss another 6.5lbs, was really happy with that, and then LLC got snotty and said well that is over 2 weeks and by rights you should have paid for last week.
Am I now being over sensitive or are people just nasty and hate seeing me with more confidence? I wouldnt care but I'm not overconfident in a cocky way I just dont hold my head low anymore