LV30
Gold Member
Hello
I've read a few threads this morning about how desperately unhappy some people are feeling. My god, it didn't half ring some bells, because i know exactly what they are going through.
Being invited out to parties and weekends away and so no wanting to go because I had nothing to wear - and I didn't want to go because I didn't want other people to see how big i was. I wanted to lock myself away and eat rubbish. And I did. The rubbish excuses I gave to people for not going out - they must have thought I was the rudest person (well, I suffered from bad headaches, or bad stomach ache - any excuse I could find - i made it not to go out).
It is such a struggle sometimes to see the light at the end of the tunnel, and it can be such a dispairing time.
BUT there comes a point when you've really got to want it and START doing it. I wasted years and years of my life because i was fat. How sad is that? It's really really heartbreaking.
So please ladies - please please make today the day you will make a fresh start - don't waste another day. Just do it. Even tho it's hard the results are amazing. Reclaim your life back!! No-one can do it for you... we can help and advise and give you virtual hugs and virtual boots up the backsides... but ultimately it's down to you.
With love to you all... we are all in this together and we will do it!!
Lx
I've read a few threads this morning about how desperately unhappy some people are feeling. My god, it didn't half ring some bells, because i know exactly what they are going through.
Being invited out to parties and weekends away and so no wanting to go because I had nothing to wear - and I didn't want to go because I didn't want other people to see how big i was. I wanted to lock myself away and eat rubbish. And I did. The rubbish excuses I gave to people for not going out - they must have thought I was the rudest person (well, I suffered from bad headaches, or bad stomach ache - any excuse I could find - i made it not to go out).
It is such a struggle sometimes to see the light at the end of the tunnel, and it can be such a dispairing time.
BUT there comes a point when you've really got to want it and START doing it. I wasted years and years of my life because i was fat. How sad is that? It's really really heartbreaking.
So please ladies - please please make today the day you will make a fresh start - don't waste another day. Just do it. Even tho it's hard the results are amazing. Reclaim your life back!! No-one can do it for you... we can help and advise and give you virtual hugs and virtual boots up the backsides... but ultimately it's down to you.
With love to you all... we are all in this together and we will do it!!
Lx