Hey hun i would say as a word of advice not to worry so much about the extra things and forum stuff, just browse around and take an interest in what people are posting, and u will find u will start to pick things up! each and every one of us has come into this as a newbie at one point but I gotta say I have never seen anyone worry about it as much as you have been doing the last few days
relax hun, ur amongst friends!!
I hope u dont take this offensively, I just think that once you have started getting into the swing of posting responses to people, taking part in threads, starting your diary etc. that you will find these questions get answered in the natural course of things!
xxx