fillymum
synful soul
I have copied and pasted this from my diary.................
I had a really bad experience today. It has upset me so much but I am not allowing it to spoil our only day off in a long time.
We decided against going out for lunch .It is far too hot (38 degrees) to stray far from home. Sooo to give me a break we went off to Iceland for lots of pre prepared salads , some good quality English sausages and we had a rack of ribs in the freezer. So it is to be a BBQ day. I call it a rudey day as we are starkers the whole day by the pool .It is 100% private.
A good friend of ours works there and we were chatting to her when a guy came along pushing his trolley an stood sort of tapping with impatience radiating from him. There was plenty of room for him to get through. I just said to him in a jokey , laughing way, because I am never, ever rude to anyone " come on you could get a double decker bus through there " . His reply........ " That is more than could be said for you !!!!!!!" It was said in a vicious and deliberately unkind and cruel way.We were all shocked by his rudeness. Georgie and I gasped out loud. Now let's get this straight I am a size 18. I was well dressed and accessorised. So I am hardly gross. When I had recovered I followed him and said to him " Excuse me " He ignored me. It ended up with me shouting at his disappearing back, " you are the rudest man I have ever met in my life " The whole store full of people turned to look at him and at me.It as horrid.
In the meantime Paul, who was so shocked not just by what was said but the vindictive way it was said went to tackle him. Georgie stopped him. Which was probably as well because had he decked him, which was what I wanted to do, Paul would have been the one behind bars.
Until that momen I had felt happy,confident and dare I say, just a bit pretty. Now deep down inside,I have that awful sinking feeling in my stomach
and I think I must look awful. I keep welling up but do not want Paul to see it. Also I have kept my body coverd the whole of the day.
Stupid I know because it means that a complete stranger has robbed me of something special and precious.
What a thoroughly horrid person. The staff who heard him were as shocked as us and tried to reassure me that he was an idiot and that I am not like ten ton Tessie, but the damage has been done. I feel like sh1t !!!!
I had a really bad experience today. It has upset me so much but I am not allowing it to spoil our only day off in a long time.
We decided against going out for lunch .It is far too hot (38 degrees) to stray far from home. Sooo to give me a break we went off to Iceland for lots of pre prepared salads , some good quality English sausages and we had a rack of ribs in the freezer. So it is to be a BBQ day. I call it a rudey day as we are starkers the whole day by the pool .It is 100% private.
A good friend of ours works there and we were chatting to her when a guy came along pushing his trolley an stood sort of tapping with impatience radiating from him. There was plenty of room for him to get through. I just said to him in a jokey , laughing way, because I am never, ever rude to anyone " come on you could get a double decker bus through there " . His reply........ " That is more than could be said for you !!!!!!!" It was said in a vicious and deliberately unkind and cruel way.We were all shocked by his rudeness. Georgie and I gasped out loud. Now let's get this straight I am a size 18. I was well dressed and accessorised. So I am hardly gross. When I had recovered I followed him and said to him " Excuse me " He ignored me. It ended up with me shouting at his disappearing back, " you are the rudest man I have ever met in my life " The whole store full of people turned to look at him and at me.It as horrid.
In the meantime Paul, who was so shocked not just by what was said but the vindictive way it was said went to tackle him. Georgie stopped him. Which was probably as well because had he decked him, which was what I wanted to do, Paul would have been the one behind bars.
Until that momen I had felt happy,confident and dare I say, just a bit pretty. Now deep down inside,I have that awful sinking feeling in my stomach
and I think I must look awful. I keep welling up but do not want Paul to see it. Also I have kept my body coverd the whole of the day.
Stupid I know because it means that a complete stranger has robbed me of something special and precious.
What a thoroughly horrid person. The staff who heard him were as shocked as us and tried to reassure me that he was an idiot and that I am not like ten ton Tessie, but the damage has been done. I feel like sh1t !!!!