*Sparkles*
**2015 is my Year!**
Ok so I've recently got engaged and have booked my engagement party in November. I'm stressing out as I'm not really a big party lover and always have this fear that no one turns up.
So I was telling my bridesmaid the date and she tells me that this is the same date that she had booked afternoon tea for her bday. I felt horrendous as I had totally forgotten all about it.
She had booked it from 4-6pm and I said I could still come as the party doesn't start till 8pm but she is saying she wants to go out after the tea for drinks. I've tried to compromise and say she she can come along to the party later with fellow 2 mutual friends ( I was hoping their partners would come) but she's now been chatting with said mutual friends and she's set on going clubbing and decided would "drop" in on the party for a short while before heading off.
I feel really hurt by this. I want her there to meet my family and other friends but I understand that this is my f*** up and looks like there isn't much I can do.
Does anyone have any advice on how to reach a compromise? I'm so stressed out by it all
So I was telling my bridesmaid the date and she tells me that this is the same date that she had booked afternoon tea for her bday. I felt horrendous as I had totally forgotten all about it.
She had booked it from 4-6pm and I said I could still come as the party doesn't start till 8pm but she is saying she wants to go out after the tea for drinks. I've tried to compromise and say she she can come along to the party later with fellow 2 mutual friends ( I was hoping their partners would come) but she's now been chatting with said mutual friends and she's set on going clubbing and decided would "drop" in on the party for a short while before heading off.
I feel really hurt by this. I want her there to meet my family and other friends but I understand that this is my f*** up and looks like there isn't much I can do.
Does anyone have any advice on how to reach a compromise? I'm so stressed out by it all