Russiandoll
Carpe diem
Sorry to hear your news. Thinking of you; try to eat something healthy if you can - you need to keep your strength up for your kids (and yourself!)
Andi - week 1
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c2b
Regular Member
Hi ya Andi,
I am so sorry to hear of your troubles. Anyone on their own with kids gets my full admiration. Is there anyone..family etc you can leave them with for a couple of hours..you have to have some time for yourself
remember you are important, it's so easy to get caught up in the look after everyone but me scenario.
Just wanted you to know I am thinking of you.
I am so sorry to hear of your troubles. Anyone on their own with kids gets my full admiration. Is there anyone..family etc you can leave them with for a couple of hours..you have to have some time for yourself
remember you are important, it's so easy to get caught up in the look after everyone but me scenario. Just wanted you to know I am thinking of you.
Isobel1965
Gold Member
Bless you, hun - I was a single mum for 5 years and it can be very gruelling BUT it's also fantastic when it's just you and the kids with no HIM causing a nasty atmosphere and cluttering up the place!
You'll take time to adjust but there's no reason why you won't find yourself happier than ever before once you've got used to to the idea.
Big (((HUGS)))
xxxx
You'll take time to adjust but there's no reason why you won't find yourself happier than ever before once you've got used to to the idea.
Big (((HUGS)))
xxxx
andi
Bye bye bellies!!!
Thanks everyone for all your support - im really touched. Im staying with my dad for a couple of nights until h gets all of his stuff out of the house. Its killing me watching him throw away our family. Its been awful for ages and I did see this coming and he has been threatening this for ages but for some daft reason I thought it would be ok and would stay together no matter what because we both want the best for our kids. Im numb at the moment but maybe this is what I need to get back control of my life.
The good news is that I lost 5lbs this week. Its not a real loss but I have updated my ticker anyway.
Ax
The good news is that I lost 5lbs this week. Its not a real loss but I have updated my ticker anyway.
Ax
DecemberBride2008
Needs to succeed
Sorry to hear your news Andi. Hope you are ok.
Take care
xx
Take care
xx
Andi
Puts my bad week into perspective. I was in a similar situation a few years ago so I do know how you feel, I lived on coffee and alpen bars for weeks, it was all I could stomach. There really is nothing anyone can say to make you feel better, just hang in there and take one day at a time. It doesn't feel like it right now but you will be OK given time. Think of you.
X
Puts my bad week into perspective. I was in a similar situation a few years ago so I do know how you feel, I lived on coffee and alpen bars for weeks, it was all I could stomach. There really is nothing anyone can say to make you feel better, just hang in there and take one day at a time. It doesn't feel like it right now but you will be OK given time. Think of you.
X
andi
Bye bye bellies!!!
Thanks everyone - where would I be without all your kind words of support. He has most of his stuff out of our house and is busy spending thousands of pounds on making his new pad lovely. Strange how he never had any money to spend on our home He hasnt lifted a paintbrush in years in our house but he has bought paint and is painting his new place. The more I think about it the more im convinced that he is doing me a favour and that I can at last move on from this huge rut I have been in for years. Me and the kids are moving back home tomorrow night. It will be strange for a while but we will get used to it and who knows maybe even prefer it just the three of us (and the mad pets aswell!)
Ax
He hasnt lifted a paintbrush in years in our house but he has bought paint and is painting his new place. The more I think about it the more im convinced that he is doing me a favour and that I can at last move on from this huge rut I have been in for years. Me and the kids are moving back home tomorrow night. It will be strange for a while but we will get used to it and who knows maybe even prefer it just the three of us (and the mad pets aswell!)Ax
