Angry at Ex-Husband. SOme things never go away.

[westiegirl]

I think you have done the right thing - somethings just need to be said - no matter how difficult they might be to say.

You might not need his validation anymore but at least some acknowledgement of the pain he caused might go a long way to help.

You have travelled so far on your journey and I admire your strength and how far you have come

 

[Blonde Logic]

You might not need his validation anymore but at least some acknowledgement of the pain he caused might go a long way to help.

Ach! Westiegirl - that's it!! Nail well and truly hit right on its head.

It is that precisely, I want him to OWN the damage his words and actions caused. I have felt he got away scott free. I just couldn't put it in words last night. but simply put - you nailed it.

THanks for that!
xx

 

[westiegirl]

Ach! Westiegirl - that's it!! Nail well and truly hit right on its head.

It is that precisely, I want him to OWN the damage his words and actions caused. I have felt he got away scott free. I just couldn't put it in words last night. but simply put - you nailed it.

THanks for that!
xx

No problem

 

[SerenityValley]

Andy - I let people walk all over me before - I just swallowed my feelings - metaphorically and physicially - if anyone upset me...and it was indeed from low self - esteem. I felt my opinions were not worthy because I was so fat, no one would care or even listen. I also did not want to do anything that drew attention to myself because I was certain they would respond with "she's fat - what does she know/matter". It's horrible we can feel that way about ourselves! Still makes me sad to think how many times I felt that way. What a waste!

I truly hear you. I could type tens of thousands of words about how I feel or have felt, and that is it on the nose really. Three simple words, "What a waste".

No more, for either of us

Andy xxx

 

[emzski]

Sorry im just checking this thread out now.

You done the right thing and I think it needed to be done. You needed to tell him what he said to you did a lot of damage and for you and him it needed to be said. I agree for him to acknowledge the pain he caused you means ALOT. Well done for you to get this out and now you can move on. Well done!!

 

[lynnwilliams]

Welldone BL. Glad you got a reply, i think you needed that soo much, i know how you feel. There is times i would like to say things to ex's how they hurt me in alot of ways, but i cant. I suppose i can write it down on paper for me!

Im so happy for you now you can move on with your new life with confidence and happiness
You are such a beautiful person!
xxxxx

 

[Blonde Logic]

Thank you Lynn <<hugs>>

Writing is a great way to get feelings out if they are difficult to verbalise.

xx

 

[Summerskye]

You did good babe. End of!

By the way, do LL have a Slimmer of the Year competition the same as CD do? If so, you had better be entering .. or I'll hunt you down and find you

 

[Blonde Logic]

You did good babe. End of!

By the way, do LL have a Slimmer of the Year competition the same as CD do? If so, you had better be entering .. or I'll hunt you down and find you

Hi Summer!!

Thank you. I think I slipped into "rebellious child" mode, but it felt good.

Truth is, I have always been a bit or a rebel, and I am still waiting to grow up - so maybe that is just my natural state! :giggle:

I don't know If LL does a contest. I haven't heard of one. At least now, if you hunt me down, I have half a chance - I can run now!!!

Hope you are well. Its always so nice to hear from you and see your smiling Avatar.

XX