Sounds like a fantastic dayWell done on resisting the cream tea!
I'm just getting ready for a night out with my friend. Am a bit worried as I'm adamant that I'll have 1/2 bottle rosé before we go (12.5 syns, and it will definitely be more than enough alcohol for me!) and then stick to diet coke and water when we're out. I don't want to go over my syns (even if I have been under 15 all week), I don't want to waste tomorrow with a hangover and I don't want to spend lots of money. I just feel like I'm letting my friend down - but surely it's my choice whether I drink or not?! Xx
The wine barely touched the sides, so I had 3 measures of spirits with diet coke when I was out - I only spent £7.50 and I'm fresh as a daisy this morning (just cooking a fry up brunch as I type!) I used 21.5 syns yesterday, but I've barely used 10 each day this week so not worried in the slightest. I think it proved to my friend that having a good time doesn't require bucket loads of alcohol and she won't moan next time I choose not to get battered!
Alcohol has never really been my friend - it's something I can take or leave. Unless its a lovely sunny afternoon and we're sitting outside with chilled wine or cider in the fridge! x
I think I need to join this group instead. I got down to 8'10 before Christmas but now in back up to 9'6frustrating!!
We had an excellent time, but it was cut short by everywhere being insanely busy! Even I feel old when I go out now, and I'm only 22! We did indeed have a very good boogie - the bar we went into cracked out some fantastic classics like the macarena, cotton eyed joe and Saturday night - we had so much fun!
It depends on what I'm drinking, I adore fruit cider so if that's on offer I find I hard to be restrained![]()
Whitey27 said:Well done on staying strong Charlie!
I'm off for a run now - gorgeous weather xx
kim63 said:Hello & welcome. Im sure you will be back into the 8's before you know it
parfittaroles said:Thank you! I left SW for a while & did WW & tried calorie counting but it's not for me - in too greedy! I've set myself a target to be under 9 by May![]()
charliemm said:I found I got into that state of mind as I was in the high 9's zone, but found the motivation to carry on. You're definitely not a failure - think about how well you have already done. It's a big lifestyle change, I know it definitely was for me. It's all about learning to make healthier choices in the long term and in my experience this is something that came with time (I've been following SW for a year and a half and only recently has healthy eating become second nature to me) and right now you're at the beginning of making else changes. It's like breaking a habit of a lifetime! How long have you been following SW?
For me, the feeling of seeing a loss on the scales and a difference in the mirror was the biggest motivator of all - perhaps start making a photo diary to remind you of the good things that happen when you make the right choices?
Running wise, I ran for around 15 mins a day for a while last year and didn't really notice a difference at all. However this time round, running for around 30 mins a day (3 times a week to begin with but 5 times a week currently), I'd say it took a couple of weeks to notice my thighs had slimmed down but most importantly that my endurance and general fitness had vastly improved. A couple of colleagues of mine are raving about a book called 'run fat b*tch run' which is about finding the motivation to run for weight loss and fitness - though I haven't read it myself.
Most importantly, keep your chin up and realise your achievements in weight loss already. There's always tomorrow to keep tryingxx
Oh dear girls *slap wrist* coming your ways.....what are you both doing on those scales, you know its not a true reflection of your weight loss! *telling off over!* Hark at me all high & mighty but I only get on the scales once a week as I can't bear how I feel if I see a gain in the week or even a loss as I get all excited....so don't do it!